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I love to read. In 2015 I started using my Goodreads account to faithfully track what I was reading, and in 2018 I began to write short reviews/reactions after I finished a book. This page is a list of every book I've read that has an associated rating and review; many entries will include a quote in italics, and may also include my notes on the book.
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by F. Scott Fitzgerald · read October 3, 2024
2nd read (Sept 2024): I think it's curious that in my mind this is a 'high school book' — maybe because it's short? — when it resonated much more strongly with me now than it did when I was younger: it’s about sacrificing things in your youth before knowing what they're worth; leaving people you care about to build a better version of yourself, not realizing they would move on in the meantime; believing that wealth and status will make you worthy of approval; and, of course, commuting to work in Manhattan because rent is cheaper outside of it.
He stretched out his hand desperately as if to snatch only a wisp of air, to save a fragment of the spot that she had made lovely for him. But it was all going by too fast now for his blurred eyes and he knew that he had lost that part of it, the freshest and the best, forever.
1st read (Mar 2018): After being halfway through this book since high school I finally read it! I really liked certain passages of the novel because of the descriptions and turns of phrase. I think I didn't enjoy it as much because I've heard about it so much/seen the movie so the novelty has worn off — would have liked it better if I didn't know what happened next or didn't have a visual to accompany my reading.
He stretched out his hand desperately as if to snatch only a wisp of air, to save a fragment of the spot that she had made lovely for him. But it was all going by too fast now for his blurred eyes and he knew that he had lost that part of it, the freshest and the best, forever.
1st read (Mar 2018): After being halfway through this book since high school I finally read it! I really liked certain passages of the novel because of the descriptions and turns of phrase. I think I didn't enjoy it as much because I've heard about it so much/seen the movie so the novelty has worn off — would have liked it better if I didn't know what happened next or didn't have a visual to accompany my reading.
by James Gleick · read September 28, 2024
Reading this was not only an intellectual delight, but it reignited my sense of wonder and enthusiasm about modern technology. Gleick picks up the thread of 'information' and follows it through mathematics, engineering, history, formal logic, quantum mechanics, genetics, computing, philosophy, and of course information theory. Curiously enough, I felt like I learned a lot more about how disciplines and thinkers share the principles of information theory than I did about the topic itself; it was kind of like attending a friend's party and spending most of your time with other guests instead of the host.
Where, then, is any particular gene—say, the gene for long legs in humans? This is a little like asking where is Beethoven’s Piano Sonata in E minor. Is it in the original handwritten score? The printed sheet music? Any one performance—or perhaps the sum of all performances, historical and potential, real and imagined? The quavers and crotchets inked on paper are not the music. Music is not a series of pressure waves sounding through the air; nor grooves etched in vinyl or pits burned in CDs; nor even the neuronal symphonies stirred up in the brain of the listener. The music is the information.
Where, then, is any particular gene—say, the gene for long legs in humans? This is a little like asking where is Beethoven’s Piano Sonata in E minor. Is it in the original handwritten score? The printed sheet music? Any one performance—or perhaps the sum of all performances, historical and potential, real and imagined? The quavers and crotchets inked on paper are not the music. Music is not a series of pressure waves sounding through the air; nor grooves etched in vinyl or pits burned in CDs; nor even the neuronal symphonies stirred up in the brain of the listener. The music is the information.
by Lucy Foley · read September 14, 2024
This was a fun read for a girls' weekend and a perfect example of a novel that knows its genre and sticks with it. Full of drama, pathetic fallacy, and general Irish moodiness.
by Paul Tautonghi · read September 8, 2024
Reading this made me thankful for the rights I have as a woman in the 21st century. There were a lot of strong scenes and I think both storylines in the novel were interesting, but the connection between them was a bit underdeveloped and the execution of the novel in general fell short of what it could have been.
He wanted to remake the world in the image of equality. He understood the ways it was unequal, but this understanding created ambition inside of him. He was so different from her father, she'd reflected as she'd gone home in the taxi, who understood the same things, but then used them to his advantage.
He wanted to remake the world in the image of equality. He understood the ways it was unequal, but this understanding created ambition inside of him. He was so different from her father, she'd reflected as she'd gone home in the taxi, who understood the same things, but then used them to his advantage.
by Yiyun Li · read September 2, 2024
There's something about Li's writing that consistently enchants me; her novels always feel nostalgic but melancholy.
Happiness, I would tell her, is to spend every day without craning one's neck to look forward to tomorrow, next month, next year, and without holding out one's hands to stop every day from becoming yesterday.
Happiness, I would tell her, is to spend every day without craning one's neck to look forward to tomorrow, next month, next year, and without holding out one's hands to stop every day from becoming yesterday.
by Cormac McCarthy · read August 27, 2024
Reading this was an experience. Stylistically, it felt like McCarthy managed to flatten the form of the story to match the setting; the plot turned from banality to brutality and back again without any noticeable change in pace or tension. That complete lack of confrontation, from author or character or even narrative device, with the evil that abounded in the story is what made it feel the most disturbing and memorable to me.
The truth about the world, he said, is that anything is possible. Had you not seen it all from birth and thereby bled it of its strangeness it would appear to you for what it is, a hat trick in a medicine show, a fevered dream, a trance bepopulate with chimeras having neither analogue nor precedent, an itinerant carnival, a migratory tentshow whose ultimate destination after many a pitch in many a mudded field is unspeakable and calamitous beyond reckoning.
The truth about the world, he said, is that anything is possible. Had you not seen it all from birth and thereby bled it of its strangeness it would appear to you for what it is, a hat trick in a medicine show, a fevered dream, a trance bepopulate with chimeras having neither analogue nor precedent, an itinerant carnival, a migratory tentshow whose ultimate destination after many a pitch in many a mudded field is unspeakable and calamitous beyond reckoning.
by Frederick Vettese · read August 26, 2024
This book was a bit bizarre, but I really enjoyed it! I've seen it recommended on PFC, so I wanted to give it a try, and I learned a lot more than I thought I would.
I think its strengths were that the dialogue-style suited the subject matter well, it went in-depth into the numbers and projections without losing the big picture, and it's always valuable to find good financial books focused specifically on Canada. I did find the narrative side of the book quite strange, but I just assumed there was some kind of story behind that and mostly ignored it. I also do wish that the author included more information on a financial strategy that involved a public sector pension, but maybe there's a different book for that.
I propose that you allocate a fixed percentage of your gross income to just those three items: retirement saving, mortgage payments and daycare expenses. The cost of each of those items can be allowed to vary from year to year, but the sum should always be the same. Think of retirement saving as the balancing item.
I think its strengths were that the dialogue-style suited the subject matter well, it went in-depth into the numbers and projections without losing the big picture, and it's always valuable to find good financial books focused specifically on Canada. I did find the narrative side of the book quite strange, but I just assumed there was some kind of story behind that and mostly ignored it. I also do wish that the author included more information on a financial strategy that involved a public sector pension, but maybe there's a different book for that.
I propose that you allocate a fixed percentage of your gross income to just those three items: retirement saving, mortgage payments and daycare expenses. The cost of each of those items can be allowed to vary from year to year, but the sum should always be the same. Think of retirement saving as the balancing item.
by Claudia Piñeiro · read August 20, 2024
The thematic underpinning was interesting—a story that includes Parkinson's, suicide, and abortion to raise questions about bodily autonomy—but I found it unpleasant to read.
'One day, some day, … life will test us. For real, not a dress rehearsal. And on that day we will finally realise that we are all alone, forced to face ourselves, with no lies left to cling to.'
'One day, some day, … life will test us. For real, not a dress rehearsal. And on that day we will finally realise that we are all alone, forced to face ourselves, with no lies left to cling to.'
by Sarah Bernstein · read August 16, 2024
Unsettling and perhaps a bit too opaque, but I loved the effect of the language and the slow-burning tension in the novel.
I was a nothing, a stranger who was not wanted but who nevertheless imposed herself continually, day after day, a kind of spectral presence hovering at the edges of the life of the town, whose intentions were obscure and who for some reason evinced a terrible fidelity to the idea of staying put.
I was a nothing, a stranger who was not wanted but who nevertheless imposed herself continually, day after day, a kind of spectral presence hovering at the edges of the life of the town, whose intentions were obscure and who for some reason evinced a terrible fidelity to the idea of staying put.
by Melissa Orlov · read August 14, 2024
Primarily this was helpful for making sense of some struggles that A and I had while wedding planning; it also recommends some strategies that I'm happy we can try so early on in our marriage!
Romantic love is an ongoing series of gifts given simply because you want to give.
Romantic love is an ongoing series of gifts given simply because you want to give.
by John Steinbeck · read August 13, 2024
4th read (Aug 2024): I read this novel again with a book club and it was really fascinating to hear the perspectives, interpretations, and questions that other readers brought to the story. As always, a delight to read and discuss.
Names are a great mystery. I've never known whether the name is molded by the child or the child changed to fit the name.
3rd read (Nov 2019): This book gets better each time I read it, and I keep seeing new things about the characters. Steinbeck has a masterful, unique way of encapsulating their defining qualities with one well written sentence or idea. The book is honest and insightful regarding human nature while remaining gracious. So good!
2nd read (Oct 2017): One of my all time favourite books. I love the thematic intertwining with the characters' stories and experiences; it feels just right, not heavy-handed or entirely implicit. The pace and style make it entrancing and so easy to get through (even though it's a long book). Would definitely recommend.
Names are a great mystery. I've never known whether the name is molded by the child or the child changed to fit the name.
3rd read (Nov 2019): This book gets better each time I read it, and I keep seeing new things about the characters. Steinbeck has a masterful, unique way of encapsulating their defining qualities with one well written sentence or idea. The book is honest and insightful regarding human nature while remaining gracious. So good!
2nd read (Oct 2017): One of my all time favourite books. I love the thematic intertwining with the characters' stories and experiences; it feels just right, not heavy-handed or entirely implicit. The pace and style make it entrancing and so easy to get through (even though it's a long book). Would definitely recommend.
by Benjamín Labatut · read July 25, 2024
I really enjoyed reading 'Prussian Blue', which felt taut and coherent; the rest of the book felt like it spiraled out into something more feverish and less understandable.
According to the determinists, if one could reveal the laws that governed matter, one could reach back to the most archaic past and predict the most distant future. If everything that occurred was the direct consequence of a prior state, then merely by looking at the present and running the equations it would be possible to achieve a godlike knowledge of the universe. Those hopes were shattered in light of Heisenberg's discovery: what was beyond our grasp was neither the future nor the past, but the present itself.
According to the determinists, if one could reveal the laws that governed matter, one could reach back to the most archaic past and predict the most distant future. If everything that occurred was the direct consequence of a prior state, then merely by looking at the present and running the equations it would be possible to achieve a godlike knowledge of the universe. Those hopes were shattered in light of Heisenberg's discovery: what was beyond our grasp was neither the future nor the past, but the present itself.
by John Irving · read July 19, 2024
It's funny to me that I finished A Prayer for Owen Meany on the same day that I mentioned to my colleague that I have a certain fondness for novels with a moral, weighty sensibility to them. I had a hard time getting into the book, but once it picked up I loved it; it was both entertaining and a beautiful reflection on faith and friendship. I was truly impressed by Irving's reincorporation of all the threads of the story in such a satisfying (and sad) ending, and while I did find all the 'present day' sections in Toronto pretty boring, I'll concede that Owen Meany is hard to compete with.
We were used to the Saturday matinees at the decrepit Gravesend movie house, inexplicably called The Idaho — after the faraway western state or the potato of that name, we never knew. The Idaho was partial to Tarzan films, and—increasingly—to biblical epics. Owen and I hated the latter: in his view, they were SACRILEGIOUS; in my opinion, they were boring. Owen was also critical of Tarzan movies.
We were used to the Saturday matinees at the decrepit Gravesend movie house, inexplicably called The Idaho — after the faraway western state or the potato of that name, we never knew. The Idaho was partial to Tarzan films, and—increasingly—to biblical epics. Owen and I hated the latter: in his view, they were SACRILEGIOUS; in my opinion, they were boring. Owen was also critical of Tarzan movies.
by Sanaë Lemoine · read July 12, 2024
This was the July pick for my neighbourhood book club. I enjoyed it — it felt like a coming of age novel mixed with refreshing explorations of parenthood and female friendships. It reminded me a bit of Conversations with Friends, and like a Sally Rooney novel it included many passages about how little the women ate.
You wanted to know if I would throw myself in front of a bus to save you. You asked if all mothers are willing to sacrifice their lives for their children. No matter what I said, you were never satisfied with my answer, because you'd go on and ask again the following week.
What did you say? I asked.
Anouk raised her eyebrows and smiled. See, even today, you're wondering.
You wanted to know if I would throw myself in front of a bus to save you. You asked if all mothers are willing to sacrifice their lives for their children. No matter what I said, you were never satisfied with my answer, because you'd go on and ask again the following week.
What did you say? I asked.
Anouk raised her eyebrows and smiled. See, even today, you're wondering.
by Sari Solden · read June 26, 2024
I thought that the four stories/case studies that this book followed were helpful illustrations of the different ways that ADD can manifest in a person's life.
by R.F. Kuang · read May 21, 2024
I had forgotten what it was like to be on Twitter until I read this novel, which reminded me why I left.
by Barbara Kingsolver · read May 19, 2024
A modern retelling of David Copperfield that follows a young boy amidst the addiction crisis in Appalachia; this novel kept me engaged, taught me a lot, and demonstrated a remarkably effective use of narrative voice.
It hit me pretty hard, how there's no kind of sad in this world that will stop it turning. People will keep on wanting what they want, and you're on your own.
It hit me pretty hard, how there's no kind of sad in this world that will stop it turning. People will keep on wanting what they want, and you're on your own.
by Hans Rosling · read May 7, 2024
Sadly, my original review has been lost to a poor Internet connection on the Amtrak. This book was an informative overview of the state of global health, and I appreciated the writing's clarity.
When we have a fact-based worldview, we can see that the world is not as bad as it seems—and we can see what we have to do to keep making it better.
When we have a fact-based worldview, we can see that the world is not as bad as it seems—and we can see what we have to do to keep making it better.
by Rick Rubin · read May 1, 2024
This book felt slow to me at first, but once I started to relate what I was reading in this book to my work and my blog I found it much more insightful. Some of the remarks that particularly stood out to me: devising containers as organizing principles, working on a piece as a way to explore an idea, and letting go of work while it still resonates with your experience.
In an environment where nothing is permanent, we produce static artifacts. Mementos of spirit. We hope they'll live forever, holding resonance through each passing decade. Some might, many won't. We can only keep building. … When you and the work are in sync, there's a time to get it out and move on.
In an environment where nothing is permanent, we produce static artifacts. Mementos of spirit. We hope they'll live forever, holding resonance through each passing decade. Some might, many won't. We can only keep building. … When you and the work are in sync, there's a time to get it out and move on.
by Peter Attia · read April 28, 2024
A highly convincing case for being responsible for your own health, and a sober look at the consequences of disregarding it. This book has definitely motivated me to assess my own habits and goals and start to make sustainable changes.
If we were epidemiologists from Saturn and all we had to go on was articles about centenarians in publications like USA Today and Good Housekeeping, we might conclude that the secret to extreme longevity is the breakfast special at Denny’s, washed down with Jim Beam and a good cigar.
If we were epidemiologists from Saturn and all we had to go on was articles about centenarians in publications like USA Today and Good Housekeeping, we might conclude that the secret to extreme longevity is the breakfast special at Denny’s, washed down with Jim Beam and a good cigar.
by Sally Rooney · read April 20, 2024
2nd read: This entire review will just be a paraphrase of a conversation I had with SK after rereading this, but here it is: I think the engaging element of Rooney's writing — the part that makes it difficult to put down the novel — is the exploration of power within social dynamics. I think the emails languish a bit in this book because the characters themselves are not the most interesting part; it's only when the characters are put in relation to each other that they begin to fly.
1st read:Rooney's novels feel like answers to questions I didn't know that I had. What I loved most about this novel was its depiction of the vulnerability that comes with knowing and loving other people deeply; a timely reminder that relationships can only be amazing when accompanied by the terrifying kind of honesty. I also loved the richness of the group dynamic and Felix's insistence on shaking things up. I wish that Simon had more of a presence in the story, but the moment between him and Eileen at Lola's wedding nearly made up for it.
What if the meaning of life on earth is not eternal progress toward some unspecified goal — the engineering and production of more and more powerful technologies, the development of more and more complex and abstruse cultural forms? What if these things just rise and recede naturally, like tides, while the meaning of life remains the same always — just to live and be with other people?
1st read:Rooney's novels feel like answers to questions I didn't know that I had. What I loved most about this novel was its depiction of the vulnerability that comes with knowing and loving other people deeply; a timely reminder that relationships can only be amazing when accompanied by the terrifying kind of honesty. I also loved the richness of the group dynamic and Felix's insistence on shaking things up. I wish that Simon had more of a presence in the story, but the moment between him and Eileen at Lola's wedding nearly made up for it.
What if the meaning of life on earth is not eternal progress toward some unspecified goal — the engineering and production of more and more powerful technologies, the development of more and more complex and abstruse cultural forms? What if these things just rise and recede naturally, like tides, while the meaning of life remains the same always — just to live and be with other people?
by Wŏn-p'yŏng Son · read April 12, 2024
The premise of this novel was intriguing: a teenage boy who doesn’t experience or understand emotions. I think the novel itself was faithful to its premise, but I didn't enjoy it that much.
by James Salter · read April 9, 2024
I enjoyed the atmosphere and style of this novel, but a month later I've already lost my sense of its substance. It was an excellent choice as an eclipse road trip read, especially through upstate New York.
There are really two kinds of life. There is, as Viri says, the one people believe you are living, and there is the other.
There are really two kinds of life. There is, as Viri says, the one people believe you are living, and there is the other.
by James Wood · read March 14, 2024
Reading this was like seeing inside the kitchen of a restaurant — fascinating and thought-provoking, but sometimes it’s harder to delight in something once you know how it’s made.
The kind of metaphor I most delight in, however, like the ones above about fire, estranges and then instantly connects, and in doing the latter so well, hides the former. The result is a tiny shock of surprise, followed by a feeling of inevitability.
The kind of metaphor I most delight in, however, like the ones above about fire, estranges and then instantly connects, and in doing the latter so well, hides the former. The result is a tiny shock of surprise, followed by a feeling of inevitability.
by Magda Szabó · read February 17, 2024
This novel, centred on the narrator and her housekeeper Emerence, was a character study that I found totally compelling. I admire how Szabó created a tension within the novel that kept it on a narrative path while primarily feeling like an exploration.
If I said we were having guests, or visitors turned up unannounced, she would ask if I needed help. Usually, I declined. I didn't want it known among my circle of friends that in my own home I was a person without a name.
If I said we were having guests, or visitors turned up unannounced, she would ask if I needed help. Usually, I declined. I didn't want it known among my circle of friends that in my own home I was a person without a name.
by Hernan Diaz · read January 28, 2024
I enjoyed the experimentation with form, the theme of constructing self and other through storytelling, and the final section, 'Futures'; it was otherwise unconvincing.
This defines the classical form. Music that one almost doesn't need to listen to, because its development is all implied by the form. … This music creates an unavoidable future for itself.
This defines the classical form. Music that one almost doesn't need to listen to, because its development is all implied by the form. … This music creates an unavoidable future for itself.
by Bill Bryson · read January 21, 2024
Entertaining, educational, and at times truly shocking. The medical field is wack and I'm frankly alarmed by the amount we either don't understand or inevitably will be proven wrong about.
by Mieko Kawakami · read January 16, 2024
I simply enjoyed reading this — there was something unembellished and direct about Natsuko's narrative voice that I particularly liked. The thematic developments were thought-provoking, but ultimately felt like they worked in service of Natsuko's character development rather than vice versa, which I preferred. I was surprised—and even disappointed?—by how invested I was in the only romantic storyline of the novel, but satisfied with its resolution.
At first, I felt a little bashful, hearing him say all these things about my work, but soon it felt like we were talking about something created by someone else entirely. It was a lonely, painful feeling, as if all of this was ancient history—the novel that I'd written, the fact that it had been published, the fact that I was a novelist who wrote books for a living, and even the feeling of wanting to write novels in the first place—these were things that happened long ago, to someone else entirely.
At first, I felt a little bashful, hearing him say all these things about my work, but soon it felt like we were talking about something created by someone else entirely. It was a lonely, painful feeling, as if all of this was ancient history—the novel that I'd written, the fact that it had been published, the fact that I was a novelist who wrote books for a living, and even the feeling of wanting to write novels in the first place—these were things that happened long ago, to someone else entirely.
by Marina and Sergey Dyachenko · read January 2, 2024
This novel was gripping, but in the end didn’t fully deliver on its tension; I found the metaphysics slightly too confusing to try to stay on top of, and the ending disappointing. I did enjoy the mind-bending, and I suspect that I will appreciate the metaphorical aspects more after my book club discussion.
'You know,' she said, 'this morning, for the first time ever, I thought that perhaps they are telling us the truth. We will finish our education and will comprehend something… incomprehensible. And then we'll tell them 'thank you.''
'You know,' she said, 'this morning, for the first time ever, I thought that perhaps they are telling us the truth. We will finish our education and will comprehend something… incomprehensible. And then we'll tell them 'thank you.''
by Leo Tolstoy · read December 30, 2023
Come for the spicy affair drama, stay for the meditations on the meaning of life.
Understanding clearly then for the first time that for every man and for himself nothing lay ahead but suffering, death and eternal oblivion, he decided that it was impossible to live that way, that he had either to explain his life so that it did not look like the wicked mockery of some devil, or shoot himself. But he had done neither the one nor the other, and had gone on living, thinking and feeling, and had even married at that same time and experienced much joy, and was happy whenever he did not think about the meaning of his life. What did it mean? It meant that his life was good, but his thinking was bad.
Understanding clearly then for the first time that for every man and for himself nothing lay ahead but suffering, death and eternal oblivion, he decided that it was impossible to live that way, that he had either to explain his life so that it did not look like the wicked mockery of some devil, or shoot himself. But he had done neither the one nor the other, and had gone on living, thinking and feeling, and had even married at that same time and experienced much joy, and was happy whenever he did not think about the meaning of his life. What did it mean? It meant that his life was good, but his thinking was bad.
by Tara Westover · read December 18, 2023
A remarkable story, told with astounding grace.
Everything I had worked for, all my years of study, had been to purchase for myself this one privilege: to see and experience more truths than those given to me by my father, and to use those truths to construct my own mind. I had come to believe that the ability to evaluate many ideas, many histories, many points of view, was at the heart of what it means to self-create. If I yielded now, I would lose more than an argument. I would lose custody of my own mind. This was the price I was being asked to pay, I understood that now. What my father wanted to cast from me wasn't a demon: it was me.
Everything I had worked for, all my years of study, had been to purchase for myself this one privilege: to see and experience more truths than those given to me by my father, and to use those truths to construct my own mind. I had come to believe that the ability to evaluate many ideas, many histories, many points of view, was at the heart of what it means to self-create. If I yielded now, I would lose more than an argument. I would lose custody of my own mind. This was the price I was being asked to pay, I understood that now. What my father wanted to cast from me wasn't a demon: it was me.
by Taylor Jenkins Reid · read December 13, 2023
This novel was a fun jaunt, with a compelling titular character (Evelyn) and an underdeveloped 'main' character (Monique). I liked reading about Evelyn's calculations and schemes to make her career successful, but the main romantic storyline didn't feel as compelling as it could have been.
'Nobody deserves anything. It's simply a matter of who's willing to go and take it for themselves.'
'Nobody deserves anything. It's simply a matter of who's willing to go and take it for themselves.'
by Zadie Smith · read December 11, 2023
I think this novel was too clever for me, but I blazed through it because I do love family drama and On Beauty was full of it. Smith also nailed her portrayal of an aggravating liberal academic in Howard, who by the end I truly could not stand. The other thorn in my side was that for some reason the names Howard and Monty felt too similar in my brain, and I was constantly losing track of who was who… but maybe there's something there, too.
It is an unnatural law of such parties that the person whose position on the guest list was originally the least secure is always the first to arrive.
It is an unnatural law of such parties that the person whose position on the guest list was originally the least secure is always the first to arrive.
by Anjali Sachdeva · read December 8, 2023
This collection was framed by an introduction that referenced the capriciousness of gods and the razor edge between wonder and terror that defines sublimity; it felt to me that the stories flirted with this theme but never quite declared their intentions.
Perhaps it was the circumstances of our creation. Perhaps we were not truly separate people but parts of a whole, as a thicket of aspen trees all grow from the same network of roots. And, even now, maybe it is no different.
Perhaps it was the circumstances of our creation. Perhaps we were not truly separate people but parts of a whole, as a thicket of aspen trees all grow from the same network of roots. And, even now, maybe it is no different.
by Kevin Simler, Robin Hanson · read December 6, 2023
I enjoyed this book — it was an exploration of one key idea, that human behaviour is frequently underlain by self-interested motives that are infrequently acknowledged or discussed. (One of the examples in the book is higher education, which is ostensibly about learning but functionally also about credentialing, signaling prestige, networking, etc.) I anticipate that the true value of this book to me will be to apply this lens of questioning to my own experiences and see where it bears fruit.
What will emerge from this investigation is a portrait of the human species as strategically self-deceived, not only as individuals but also as a society.
What will emerge from this investigation is a portrait of the human species as strategically self-deceived, not only as individuals but also as a society.
by Ayesha Manazir Siddiqi · read November 12, 2023
I read this for a book club; while it was great for discussion, it was not a great book. It tried to do a dozen different things and accomplished none of them; there were threads of the story that had potential but were choked out by poor writing, a lack of focus, and an unwieldy plot. Disappointing, but at least it had a fantastic opening sentence.
The first step in changing anything is to truly understand it. We have to consume it if we want to transform it.
The first step in changing anything is to truly understand it. We have to consume it if we want to transform it.
by Will Larson · read November 11, 2023
This book was dense with specific, actionable information. The writing assumes that the reader is familiar with a lot of its context, which makes the writing much more economical but its accessibility more limited.
I'm glad that I read this, because I enjoy building out mental scaffolding for things I want to learn in the future, but most of it isn't applicable to me (yet?). The section on leveling is immediately helpful, and something that I'm going to think about in relation to my own career.
I'm glad that I read this, because I enjoy building out mental scaffolding for things I want to learn in the future, but most of it isn't applicable to me (yet?). The section on leveling is immediately helpful, and something that I'm going to think about in relation to my own career.
by Gavin de Becker · read October 31, 2023
I found the first half of this book to be very valuable, especially when it focused on identifying behaviours that indicate danger or untrustworthiness. In general, I think the thesis that we should trust our intuition more is an important lesson, especially for women who habitually override their feelings in order to seem more reasonable or agreeable.
Intuition connects us to the natural world and to our nature. Freed from the bonds of judgment, married only to perception, it carries us to predictions we will later marvel at.
Intuition connects us to the natural world and to our nature. Freed from the bonds of judgment, married only to perception, it carries us to predictions we will later marvel at.
by Sheila Heti · read October 29, 2023
This is the first of Heti's work that I've read, and I really liked her style. Her reflections felt personal without being so idiosyncratic that they were unrelatable; it brought up a lot of questions that she answered for herself, but that I could answer for myself as well.
When I was younger, thinking about whether I wanted children, I always came back to this formula: if no one had told me anything about the world, I would have invented boyfriends. I would have invented sex, friendships, art. I would not have invented child-rearing. I would have had to invent all those other things to fulfill real longings in me, but if no one had ever told me that a person could create a person, and raise them into a citizen, it wouldn't have occurred to me as something to do. In fact, it would have sounded like a task to very much avoid.
When I was younger, thinking about whether I wanted children, I always came back to this formula: if no one had told me anything about the world, I would have invented boyfriends. I would have invented sex, friendships, art. I would not have invented child-rearing. I would have had to invent all those other things to fulfill real longings in me, but if no one had ever told me that a person could create a person, and raise them into a citizen, it wouldn't have occurred to me as something to do. In fact, it would have sounded like a task to very much avoid.
by Katy Hays · read October 15, 2023
This novel is set at The Cloisters, a museum of medieval art in the northernmost point of Manhattan, and that alone is what this book has going for it. Worth a visit, but not a read.
by Sebastian Junger · read September 18, 2023
I read this book at the right time — on an Amtrak ride home from a hike in the Adirondacks — but it wasn’t to my taste. I found the descriptions of his walking a bit dull, and the history felt sensationalized in a way that made me question its interpretation. I did enjoy learning some history about the American railroad network.
by Gabrielle Zevin · read August 20, 2023
This novel made me think and feel a lot of things. What I especially loved was that it made gaming really fascinating to me in a way it’s never been before; I feel like I finally understand what makes people love video games so much. I also enjoyed the novel’s exploration of boundaries and distinctions, especially between love/friendship and play/work. I did struggle at times with the characterizations and a couple of the major plot points, but I still enjoyed the novel.
by Ernest Hemingway · read July 30, 2023
This is the first of Hemingway's works that I've read. I did like the slow, methodical nature of the book, but it was just a bit too matter of fact for my tastes.
by Meg Keene · read July 21, 2023
A breath of fresh air in the otherwise intimidating and expensive wedding industry. I wish that I had read this a few months earlier than I did — I think it would have been even more helpful then.
Because joy—full-throated, fully present, vibrating joy like you've never felt? That is what your wedding is about.
Because joy—full-throated, fully present, vibrating joy like you've never felt? That is what your wedding is about.
by Virginia Woolf · read June 29, 2023
What I respected the most about this novel was the wholeheartedness of Woolf's vision. Some of her choices were polarizing — for example, the prose can be difficult to read — but I really enjoyed seeing how everything fit together, and I was especially impressed with the beautiful execution of the 'Time Passes' interlude. There were sections of the novel that dragged a bit for me, but I absolutely loved the dinner party scene — Lily's voice was by far my favourite.
(I also had the delightful experience of reading almost the entirety of To the Lighthouse, part one of which revolves around whether or not the weather will permit the Ramsays to go out for a day trip, while sitting on a runway at JFK for 7 hours wondering whether or not the weather would permit my plane to leave for Toronto. Like the Ramsays, my trip was delayed… though thankfully not quite as long.)
'Will you take me, Mr. Tansley?' said Lily, quickly, kindly, for, of course, if Mrs. Ramsay said to her, as in effect she did, 'I am drowning, my dear, in seas of fire. Unless you apply some balm to the anguish of this hour and say something nice to that young man there, life will run upon the rocks—indeed I hear the grating and the growling at this minute. My nerves are taut as fiddle strings. Another touch and they will snap'—when Mrs. Ramsay said all this, as the glance in her eyes said it, of course for the hundred and fiftieth time Lily Briscoe had to renounce the experiment—what happens if one is not nice to that young man there—and be nice.
(I also had the delightful experience of reading almost the entirety of To the Lighthouse, part one of which revolves around whether or not the weather will permit the Ramsays to go out for a day trip, while sitting on a runway at JFK for 7 hours wondering whether or not the weather would permit my plane to leave for Toronto. Like the Ramsays, my trip was delayed… though thankfully not quite as long.)
'Will you take me, Mr. Tansley?' said Lily, quickly, kindly, for, of course, if Mrs. Ramsay said to her, as in effect she did, 'I am drowning, my dear, in seas of fire. Unless you apply some balm to the anguish of this hour and say something nice to that young man there, life will run upon the rocks—indeed I hear the grating and the growling at this minute. My nerves are taut as fiddle strings. Another touch and they will snap'—when Mrs. Ramsay said all this, as the glance in her eyes said it, of course for the hundred and fiftieth time Lily Briscoe had to renounce the experiment—what happens if one is not nice to that young man there—and be nice.
by Bill Perkins · read June 22, 2023
I've really enjoyed books like Die with Zero and The Psychology of Money because I feel like my technical financial knowledge is in a good place for my age and needs, but my psychology around finance still feels off to me. This book was written for people who have psychological issues spending money, not saving it, which suited me better than many PF books I've read.
Perkins makes the argument that you should be strategic about how you spend money over the course of your life, rather than sacrificing life experiences to accumulate money that you might not need. The philosophical underpinning of this book is that you should aim to maximize the experiences you want in life — which sounds nice, but feels like a truism to me when I think about it.
This book was short, readable, and gave me some interesting ideas to digest about the purpose of my money.
Maximizing your fulfillment from experiences—by planning how you will spend your time and money to achieve the biggest peaks you can with the resources you have—is how you maximize your life.
Perkins makes the argument that you should be strategic about how you spend money over the course of your life, rather than sacrificing life experiences to accumulate money that you might not need. The philosophical underpinning of this book is that you should aim to maximize the experiences you want in life — which sounds nice, but feels like a truism to me when I think about it.
This book was short, readable, and gave me some interesting ideas to digest about the purpose of my money.
Maximizing your fulfillment from experiences—by planning how you will spend your time and money to achieve the biggest peaks you can with the resources you have—is how you maximize your life.
by John Steinbeck · read June 1, 2023
John Steinbeck… his power!! He encapsulates so much in so little.
'But not us! An' why? Because… because I got you to look after me, and you got me to look after you, and that's why.'
'But not us! An' why? Because… because I got you to look after me, and you got me to look after you, and that's why.'
by Sándor Márai · read April 11, 2023
I wanted to read a work of Hungarian literature before visiting Budapest, and I'm so happy that I read Embers. I loved Márai's writing, which it created such a distinctive atmosphere within the novel. The story held so much tension, and I felt like the ending was a really satisfying resolution of that tension, but not in the way I'd expected.
One's life, viewed as a whole, is always the answer to the most important questions. Along the way, does it matter what one says, what words and principles one chooses to justify oneself?
One's life, viewed as a whole, is always the answer to the most important questions. Along the way, does it matter what one says, what words and principles one chooses to justify oneself?
by Nassim Nicholas Taleb · read April 3, 2023
This was an excellent read about intellectual humility and learning to recognize the limits of our own understanding, and I liked Taleb’s forceful, direct writing style.The most helpful lesson for me was how to distinguish from Mediocristan and Extremistan (Mediocristan is where we must endure the tyranny of the collective, the routine, the obvious, and the predicted; Extremistan is where we are subjected to the tyranny of the singular, the accidental, the unseen, and the unpredicted.)
by Franz Kafka · read April 2, 2023
The Trial is a book that you know before you read it; and therefore, in my opinion, is a book that needs to exist but not necessarily to be read.
'You are Josef K.,' said the priest, raising one hand from the pulpit in a vague gesture. 'Yes,' said K., thinking how freely he used to say his name in the past. For some time now it had become a burden to him, and now people he had not met before knew his name; how good it was to introduce himself first and only then to be known.
'You are Josef K.,' said the priest, raising one hand from the pulpit in a vague gesture. 'Yes,' said K., thinking how freely he used to say his name in the past. For some time now it had become a burden to him, and now people he had not met before knew his name; how good it was to introduce himself first and only then to be known.
by Ramit Sethi · read March 18, 2023
I saw so many people online recommending this personal finance book that I wanted to read it and understand what the hype was about. The book was just an average PF book, but Sethi's tone made him sound like a jerk and made the book unpleasant to read… which honestly surprised me, because he's so well known in PF and yet the target demographic of that book felt extremely narrow.
A few months later, I've just finished watching his Netflix series and it's much better. His approach to personal finance (habits, strategies, mindsets) is much more compelling and understandable in the show. Skip the book, watch the series.
A few months later, I've just finished watching his Netflix series and it's much better. His approach to personal finance (habits, strategies, mindsets) is much more compelling and understandable in the show. Skip the book, watch the series.
by Ellen Ullman · read March 16, 2023
I love Ullman's writing, and I especially love her willingness to acknowledge the flaws in who and what she loves. Reading her reflections on the craft of programming is a delight.
My favourites from this collection: 'Transactions', 'Software and Suburbia', and 'Virtuality'.
But the computer is not really like us. It is a projection of a very slim part of ourselves: that portion devoted to logic, order, rule, and clarity. It is as if we took the game of chess and declared it the highest order of human existence. … The only problem is this: the more we surround ourselves with a narrowed notion of existence, the more narrow existence becomes. … We think we are creating the system, but the system is also creating us.
My favourites from this collection: 'Transactions', 'Software and Suburbia', and 'Virtuality'.
But the computer is not really like us. It is a projection of a very slim part of ourselves: that portion devoted to logic, order, rule, and clarity. It is as if we took the game of chess and declared it the highest order of human existence. … The only problem is this: the more we surround ourselves with a narrowed notion of existence, the more narrow existence becomes. … We think we are creating the system, but the system is also creating us.
by Kate Crawford · read January 27, 2023
This feels like a bad time to review this book, because I'm a bit oversaturated on the “let's discuss AI” moment that's happening right now, but I'll do it anyways.
Starting with the good things: I really liked the ‘atlas' framing. An atlas is not a map that purports to objectively convey its territory, but rather a particular viewpoint or interpretation of reality, imbued with its own preoccupations and biases. It felt like a helpful shorthand for the thesis of Crawford's critiques: that technologists have been (willfully?) ignorant of the politics imbedded in their work, and thoughtless about the broader social and historical contexts they operate within. I also found this book to be a useful overview of some of the considerations and history that are frequently overlooked in discussions about AI, and I think I'll dive into some of the authors that Crawford referenced.
Despite having some interesting content, this book bored me more than it should have, and I thought that the writing style was too academic. The other thing that bothers me in general about this specific genre of book is that it's uninspiring. I think I'm just tired of the “here's what people did that was bad” pattern, and what I actually want is a compelling vision for how we could build and use new technologies to make the world better.
Starting with the good things: I really liked the ‘atlas' framing. An atlas is not a map that purports to objectively convey its territory, but rather a particular viewpoint or interpretation of reality, imbued with its own preoccupations and biases. It felt like a helpful shorthand for the thesis of Crawford's critiques: that technologists have been (willfully?) ignorant of the politics imbedded in their work, and thoughtless about the broader social and historical contexts they operate within. I also found this book to be a useful overview of some of the considerations and history that are frequently overlooked in discussions about AI, and I think I'll dive into some of the authors that Crawford referenced.
Despite having some interesting content, this book bored me more than it should have, and I thought that the writing style was too academic. The other thing that bothers me in general about this specific genre of book is that it's uninspiring. I think I'm just tired of the “here's what people did that was bad” pattern, and what I actually want is a compelling vision for how we could build and use new technologies to make the world better.
by Lindsey Stanberry · read January 15, 2023
Unfortunately, this book was not a collection of Money Diaries — it was a basic personal finance book with a few Money Diaries scattered throughout. I didn't learn very much from the content, although the section on student loans was illuminating and sad. At least Money Diaries are almost always entertaining… mostly because any form of explanation given in the context of spending money sounds like a justification.
by Theodore Dreiser · read January 6, 2023
I didn't really like this book, but it was good. The prose was so hard to get through, and the story seemed to drag on and on, belabouring the same struggles and thoughts over and over… but it dragged on artfully, like a nightmare that just wouldn't end, like Clyde's life. It was as if I was stuck in a psychic prison where the way out was always clear yet out of reach.
What particularly struck me was a passage at the very end of the novel wherein Clyde reflects that his mother could never truly understand him, because she doesn't understand his relentless desire for wealth and status. My instinctual reaction was ‘no kidding, you literally murdered your lover because you wanted to ride horses at the cottage with your friends', but I think it does illuminate what Dreiser explored through the character of Clyde—the obsession with having when one has not.
It was as though there was an unsurmountable wall or impenetrable barrier between them, built by the lack of understanding—for it was just that. She would never understand his craving for ease and luxury, for beauty, for love—his particular kind of love that went with show, pleasure, wealth, position, his eager and immutable aspirations and desires. She could not understand these things. She would look on all of it as sin.
(I also really liked the part where the lawyer was like ‘man this guy is bad at murder': After grilling Clyde for four long hours one hot July afternoon, he was eventually compelled to desist with the feeling that as a plotter of crime Clyde was probably the most arresting example of feeble and blundering incapacity he had ever met.)
What particularly struck me was a passage at the very end of the novel wherein Clyde reflects that his mother could never truly understand him, because she doesn't understand his relentless desire for wealth and status. My instinctual reaction was ‘no kidding, you literally murdered your lover because you wanted to ride horses at the cottage with your friends', but I think it does illuminate what Dreiser explored through the character of Clyde—the obsession with having when one has not.
It was as though there was an unsurmountable wall or impenetrable barrier between them, built by the lack of understanding—for it was just that. She would never understand his craving for ease and luxury, for beauty, for love—his particular kind of love that went with show, pleasure, wealth, position, his eager and immutable aspirations and desires. She could not understand these things. She would look on all of it as sin.
(I also really liked the part where the lawyer was like ‘man this guy is bad at murder': After grilling Clyde for four long hours one hot July afternoon, he was eventually compelled to desist with the feeling that as a plotter of crime Clyde was probably the most arresting example of feeble and blundering incapacity he had ever met.)
by Yuval Noah Harari · read December 22, 2022
You know those perfume sampler sets, where you get half a dozen tiny perfume bottles, and you can try them out and then swap one in for the full size? This felt like the book version of that, but someone needs to design the swapping in part, where you can get another book that explores in depth what its 'sampler' chapter introduced.
Brilliant idea aside — this book was a lot like Sapiens: readable and very broad. A few of the chapters really piqued my interest, and it was a good way to spend a commute day. I wish that he had offered more opinion in the ‘meaning of life' chapter, but I guess I'll just keep looking.
You can help somebody, and that somebody will subsequently help somebody else, and you thereby contribute to the overall improvement of the world, and constitute a small link in the great chain of kindness. … Though it has its merits, the great chain of kindness is a bit like the great chain of turtles—it is far from clear where its meaning comes from. A wise old man was asked what he learned about the meaning of life. ‘Well,' he answered, ‘I have learned that I am here on earth in order to help other people. What I still haven't figured out is why the other people are here.'
Brilliant idea aside — this book was a lot like Sapiens: readable and very broad. A few of the chapters really piqued my interest, and it was a good way to spend a commute day. I wish that he had offered more opinion in the ‘meaning of life' chapter, but I guess I'll just keep looking.
You can help somebody, and that somebody will subsequently help somebody else, and you thereby contribute to the overall improvement of the world, and constitute a small link in the great chain of kindness. … Though it has its merits, the great chain of kindness is a bit like the great chain of turtles—it is far from clear where its meaning comes from. A wise old man was asked what he learned about the meaning of life. ‘Well,' he answered, ‘I have learned that I am here on earth in order to help other people. What I still haven't figured out is why the other people are here.'
by Min Jin Lee · read December 19, 2022
Riveting but also very emotionally distressing. This was one of the most fluid 15+ character books I've read in a long time — it felt effortless to keep track of everyone, and Lee's portrayals of her cast were complex and gracious. All the infidelity wore on me by the end, but what happened to Leah particularly disturbed and grieved me.
It might be because I just finished The House of Mirth, but there seemed to be many parallels between the two novels — both centred around a young woman in New York from humble beginnings with a taste for fine things, a fluctuating moral compass, an eye for fashion (and a talent or lack thereof for hats specifically), a tendency to make reckless decisions, a benevolent older friend who lines up opportunities for her, a lover she can't marry, and an ultimately financially ruinous defiance to play the game by its rules.
'I'm not saying you can't fuck it up. I'm just saying you should be making the mistakes as you head towards your goals.'
It might be because I just finished The House of Mirth, but there seemed to be many parallels between the two novels — both centred around a young woman in New York from humble beginnings with a taste for fine things, a fluctuating moral compass, an eye for fashion (and a talent or lack thereof for hats specifically), a tendency to make reckless decisions, a benevolent older friend who lines up opportunities for her, a lover she can't marry, and an ultimately financially ruinous defiance to play the game by its rules.
'I'm not saying you can't fuck it up. I'm just saying you should be making the mistakes as you head towards your goals.'
by Peter Wohlleben · read December 17, 2022
2nd read (Dec 17, 2022): I finally reread this book and it's truly a delightful assortment of tree facts. I wish that it was a bit more science-heavy, but I loved the breadth and novelty of information.
1st read (Nov 15, 2018): Interesting information about characteristics of trees and forest ecosystems in an accessible, colloquial style. Lack of organization in the text made it a little difficult to follow the author's trajectory.
1st read (Nov 15, 2018): Interesting information about characteristics of trees and forest ecosystems in an accessible, colloquial style. Lack of organization in the text made it a little difficult to follow the author's trajectory.
by Edith Wharton · read December 13, 2022
A captivating, deft character study of Lily Bart, this novel has a richness to it that signifies a classic. I really enjoyed it, although I felt that the ending was a bit too drawn out and the anti-Semitism was jarring.
They would welcome her in a new character, but as Miss Bart they knew her by heart. She knew herself by heart too, and was sick of the old story. There were moments when she longed blindly for anything different, anything strange, remote and untried; but the utmost reach of her imagination did not go beyond picturing her usual life in a new setting. She could not figure herself as anywhere but in a drawing-room, diffusing elegance as a flower sheds perfume.
They would welcome her in a new character, but as Miss Bart they knew her by heart. She knew herself by heart too, and was sick of the old story. There were moments when she longed blindly for anything different, anything strange, remote and untried; but the utmost reach of her imagination did not go beyond picturing her usual life in a new setting. She could not figure herself as anywhere but in a drawing-room, diffusing elegance as a flower sheds perfume.
by Anne Carson · read November 29, 2022
Recommended to me by a woman on Bumble BFF that I unintentionally ghosted when my phone was stolen and I lost access to my account. A bit hard to understand, but I liked the 'novel in verse', especially the creative and original metaphors.
Geryon paused in his listening and saw the slopes of time spin backwards and stop. He was standing beside his mother at the window on a late winter afternoon. It was the hour when snow goes blue and streetlights come on and a hare may pause on the tree line as still as a word in a book. In this hour he and his mother accompanied each other. They did not turn on the light but stood quiet and watched the night come washing up towards them. Saw it arrive, touch, move past them and it was gone.
Geryon paused in his listening and saw the slopes of time spin backwards and stop. He was standing beside his mother at the window on a late winter afternoon. It was the hour when snow goes blue and streetlights come on and a hare may pause on the tree line as still as a word in a book. In this hour he and his mother accompanied each other. They did not turn on the light but stood quiet and watched the night come washing up towards them. Saw it arrive, touch, move past them and it was gone.
by Neil Gaiman · read November 3, 2022
An entertaining collection of stories from Norse mythology. I especially enjoyed the first few chapters, which detailed the world and its origins.
by Olivia Laing · read October 21, 2022
2nd read (Oct 21, 2022): I thought it would be fitting to reread this book after moving to NYC and before seeing an Edward Hopper exhibition at the Whitney. I felt like I enjoyed it for new reasons the second time around, particularly since I could locate the artists within the city.
1st read (Feb 16, 2020): I thought this book was solely a memoir, so its actual contents were unexpected to me, but I enjoyed learning about the lives and works of four different artists in New York City and the reflections on community, isolation, and history that accompanied them. I particularly liked looking at their artwork after I had learned more about the circumstances surrounding it, and enjoyed Hopper's the most.
Collapse, spread, merging, union: these things sound like the opposite of loneliness, and yet intimacy requires a solid sense of self to be successful and satisfying.
1st read (Feb 16, 2020): I thought this book was solely a memoir, so its actual contents were unexpected to me, but I enjoyed learning about the lives and works of four different artists in New York City and the reflections on community, isolation, and history that accompanied them. I particularly liked looking at their artwork after I had learned more about the circumstances surrounding it, and enjoyed Hopper's the most.
Collapse, spread, merging, union: these things sound like the opposite of loneliness, and yet intimacy requires a solid sense of self to be successful and satisfying.
by Katie Kitamura · read October 15, 2022
I liked the prose of this novel — understated, sharp, and 'just enough'. I was especially interested in the narrator's translation work at the Court.
They had mere fragments of the narrative, and yet they would assemble those fragments into a story like any other story, a story with the appearance of unity.
They had mere fragments of the narrative, and yet they would assemble those fragments into a story like any other story, a story with the appearance of unity.
by Peter Singer · read October 10, 2022
This essay sets forth a simple, challenging idea; concisely addresses some major objections; and leaves it at that. The blurb describes it as 'widely discussed' — I think I would enjoy the discussions more than I enjoyed the essay, but I'm still glad I read it.
The conclusion remains: we ought to be preventing as much suffering as we can without sacrificing something else of comparable moral importance. This conclusion is one which we may be reluctant to face. I cannot see, though, why it should be regarded as a criticism of the position for which I have argued, rather than a criticism of our ordinary standards of behavior.
The conclusion remains: we ought to be preventing as much suffering as we can without sacrificing something else of comparable moral importance. This conclusion is one which we may be reluctant to face. I cannot see, though, why it should be regarded as a criticism of the position for which I have argued, rather than a criticism of our ordinary standards of behavior.
by Joan Didion · read September 15, 2022
This book is Didion's account of the year following her husband's sudden death, during which her daughter fell seriously ill. On one hand, the book is an honest confrontation with grief and loss, and Didion openly shares on a subject that most people shy away from. On the other hand, the book is intensely personal, and therefore kind of dull to read through — it contains many references to places I've never been, works I've never read, people I've never met, and medical terminology I've never learned.
So while I didn't enjoy reading the book, I think that in some way it's a reminder of what makes loss so challenging — that it's always particular and personal, and therefore never really understandable by anyone else.
Grief turns out to be a place none of us know until we reach it.
So while I didn't enjoy reading the book, I think that in some way it's a reminder of what makes loss so challenging — that it's always particular and personal, and therefore never really understandable by anyone else.
Grief turns out to be a place none of us know until we reach it.
by Jane Harper · read September 9, 2022
This book was a fun read, but not one of my favourite suspense novels. The characters were a bit flat and the prose was pretty run-of-the-mill, but I liked the layering of mysteries. I'd recommend The Lost Man instead.
by Oliver Burkeman · read August 28, 2022
I devoured this in a day—it was a balm for my soul as I panic about many outstanding tasks in my life.
Once you give up on the unattainable goal of eradicating all your problems, it becomes possible to develop an appreciation for the fact that life just is a process of engaging with problem after problem, giving each one the time it requires—that the presence of problems in your life, in other words, isn't an impediment to a meaningful existence but the very substance of one.
Once you give up on the unattainable goal of eradicating all your problems, it becomes possible to develop an appreciation for the fact that life just is a process of engaging with problem after problem, giving each one the time it requires—that the presence of problems in your life, in other words, isn't an impediment to a meaningful existence but the very substance of one.
by Lionel Shriver · read August 22, 2022
This book was super bizarre but surprisingly engrossing. The basic premise is that the American dollar loses all value, the country's economy collapses, and the main characters (The Mandibles) have to survive a world turned on its head. I think the ideas and themes of the book were really interesting to me — I've always felt like having money gives you a certain kind of immunity from incredibly terrible things happening to you, but that's precisely the opposite in this story. It was a good reminder to not take things for granted, and to question the assumption that the future will largely resemble the present. The novel itself was a bit weird — the first few chapters predominantly consist of long dialogues about economics, the racial subplot was odd and felt forced, and the second part of the novel (which devolves into dystopia) had only a tenuous connection to the first. Still, I enjoyed it.
There was nothing astonishing about things not working, about things falling apart. Failure and decay were the world's natural state. What was astonishing was anything that worked as intended, for any duration whatsoever.
There was nothing astonishing about things not working, about things falling apart. Failure and decay were the world's natural state. What was astonishing was anything that worked as intended, for any duration whatsoever.
by Gary Keller · read August 18, 2022
This book is terrible — it's repetitive, simplistic, grating, and IMO pretty misguided. I would love to dunk on it further, but I don't want to fill my GR with negativity, so I'll keep it short: it's annoying to assume we all share a definition of what an 'extraordinary' life entails, it's silly to pretend that life isn't complex and dynamic, and it's super irritating to stylize 'one' as 'ONE' for 200+ pages.
by Toby Ord · read August 10, 2022
This book is an investigation into the likelihood that humanity experiences an existential catastrophe in the next century. Ord argues that our power is growing faster than our wisdom, and that the 'defining challenge of our time' is to safeguard humanity's potential from collapse or extinction in the face of risks like asteroids, nuclear weapons, climate change, pandemics, and unaligned artificial intelligence.
Ord examines a wide array of risks rigorously, which was a bit dense/dry to a casual reader like me, but obviously of scholarly value. Overall, I think the book makes a compelling case for taking these risks seriously and rising to the challenge of devoting significant resources to mitigating them. The most interesting section for me was 'anthropogenic risks', especially learning more about the history of nuclear weapons and warfare, and the introductory chapters outlining the stakes and philosophical underpinnings of the book's project.
In the months after my daughter was born, the magnitude of everything my parents did for me was fully revealed. I was shocked. I told them; thanked them; apologized for the impossibility of repaying them. And they smiled, telling me that this wasn't how it worked—that one doesn't repay one's parents. One passes it on.
Ord examines a wide array of risks rigorously, which was a bit dense/dry to a casual reader like me, but obviously of scholarly value. Overall, I think the book makes a compelling case for taking these risks seriously and rising to the challenge of devoting significant resources to mitigating them. The most interesting section for me was 'anthropogenic risks', especially learning more about the history of nuclear weapons and warfare, and the introductory chapters outlining the stakes and philosophical underpinnings of the book's project.
In the months after my daughter was born, the magnitude of everything my parents did for me was fully revealed. I was shocked. I told them; thanked them; apologized for the impossibility of repaying them. And they smiled, telling me that this wasn't how it worked—that one doesn't repay one's parents. One passes it on.
by David Graeber · read August 5, 2022
I think the huge value of this book is the identification of 'bullshit jobs' and its elaboration on the 'spiritual violence' that completely useless jobs inflict on those that work them — it seemed to echo Frankl's identification of purpose and meaning as a driving life force in 'Man's Search for Meaning'. Most knowledge workers would probably benefit from reading this book, but at times it felt like he was restating the same ideas.
Since I agreed with Graeber's position, I didn't read this book very critically. It did make me wish I knew more about labour studies, and I might do some further investigation into feudalism and universal basic income. I think it also has interesting implications for discussions on how artificial intelligence could affect the workforce, since (thus far) productivity/efficiency gains seem to have increased economic output but not decreased working hours for most people. Much 2 think about with this one.
One might even say that this is the core question—perhaps ultimately the only question—of all social theory and all revolutionary thought. Together we create the world we inhabit. Yet if any one of us tried to imagine a world we'd like to live in, who would come up with one exactly like the one that currently exists? We can all imagine a better world. Why can't we just create one?
Since I agreed with Graeber's position, I didn't read this book very critically. It did make me wish I knew more about labour studies, and I might do some further investigation into feudalism and universal basic income. I think it also has interesting implications for discussions on how artificial intelligence could affect the workforce, since (thus far) productivity/efficiency gains seem to have increased economic output but not decreased working hours for most people. Much 2 think about with this one.
One might even say that this is the core question—perhaps ultimately the only question—of all social theory and all revolutionary thought. Together we create the world we inhabit. Yet if any one of us tried to imagine a world we'd like to live in, who would come up with one exactly like the one that currently exists? We can all imagine a better world. Why can't we just create one?
by Marlowe Granados · read July 26, 2022
Effervescent, charming, and insistent that young women can be everything. I loved Isa's voice.
A person should never take on a city with an empty stomach, and I am always hungry.
A person should never take on a city with an empty stomach, and I am always hungry.
by Scott Lynch · read July 24, 2022
One of the reviews on the back of this book describes it as 'swashbuckling', which is an excellent adjective for this story. It wasn't my usual genre (and was occasionally too crude or gruesome for my tastes), but I enjoyed being immersed in a new world and following Lamora's schemes and adventures. A fun summer read.
by Thomas C. Foster · read July 13, 2022
A delight to read, and a reminder of why I love reading so much. Foster meanders through a world of literature to illuminate the symbols, patterns, and archetypes that give depth and texture to the stories we read. I especially liked his emphasis on intertextuality: how every work is part of the body of literature, and is therefore in conversation with the works that came before and after it through our collective cultural memory. This book was exactly what I'd hoped it would be, and I'm excited to encounter my next novels with new eyes.
The more we become aware of the possibility that our text is speaking to other texts, the more similarities and correspondences we begin to notice, and the more alive the text becomes.
The more we become aware of the possibility that our text is speaking to other texts, the more similarities and correspondences we begin to notice, and the more alive the text becomes.
by bell hooks · read July 6, 2022
This collection of essays on pedagogy, theory, and feminism was rich and thought-provoking. It reminded me how much space education still has for change, and the growing pains that come with that change. Teaching well is no easy task.
My favourites from the collection: 'Essentialism and Experience', 'Holding My Sister's Hand', and 'Embracing Change'.
There are times when personal experience keeps us from reaching the mountaintop and so we let it go because the weight of it is too heavy. And sometimes the mountaintop is difficult to reach with all our resources, factual and confessional, so we are just there collectively grasping, feeling the limitations of knowledge, longing together, yearning for a way to reach that highest point. Even this yearning is a way to know.
My favourites from the collection: 'Essentialism and Experience', 'Holding My Sister's Hand', and 'Embracing Change'.
There are times when personal experience keeps us from reaching the mountaintop and so we let it go because the weight of it is too heavy. And sometimes the mountaintop is difficult to reach with all our resources, factual and confessional, so we are just there collectively grasping, feeling the limitations of knowledge, longing together, yearning for a way to reach that highest point. Even this yearning is a way to know.
by Philip E. Tetlock · read June 29, 2022
This oft-cited book did not disappoint — it was a readable account of a research project to determine what makes someone good at forecasting, or making predictions about the future. Since I'm interested in psychology, cognition, and mathematics, especially probability, I especially enjoyed reading about how Tetlock's research relates to other thinkers like Laplace, Kahneman, Duke, and Taleb — the topic of how we can apply good judgment, in the face of cognitive biases, to the non-intuitive process of assigning probabilities to future events is so multi-layered that every step to unraveling it is fascinating. This book definitely leaves me feeling like I should get onto Metaculus and start putting what I've learned into action!
The human brain demands order. The world must make sense, which means we must be able to explain what we see and think. And we usually can—because we are creative confabulators hardwired to invent stories that impose coherence on the world.
The human brain demands order. The world must make sense, which means we must be able to explain what we see and think. And we usually can—because we are creative confabulators hardwired to invent stories that impose coherence on the world.
by Elif Batuman · read June 9, 2022
The beginning of this novel was a bit clunky and the end too abrupt, but most of it was written in the style that made me love The Idiot. It definitely felt heavier and sadder.
"Shall we get out of here?" he said in a suave, euphemistic-sounding tone. I nodded. I always wanted to get out of here, and nobody ever asked.
"Shall we get out of here?" he said in a suave, euphemistic-sounding tone. I nodded. I always wanted to get out of here, and nobody ever asked.
by George Eliot · read May 30, 2022
This novel should be assigned reading before getting married.
The really delightful marriage must be that where your husband was a sort of father, and could teach you even Hebrew, if you wished it.
The really delightful marriage must be that where your husband was a sort of father, and could teach you even Hebrew, if you wished it.
by Nikolai Gogol · read May 11, 2022
This novel started slow and then really grew on me. It's unusual to find books which are so consistently amusing — every chapter had an incident, a description, or a turn of phrase that I enjoyed. Tchitchikov was a curious main character: almost amorphous, taking whatever shape he needed to be in the moment, compared to his deliberately idiosyncratic counterparts. I especially liked the way Gogol played on the distinction between real/unreal, dead/alive, and realistic/absurd, and the occasional authorial comments on literature and Russian culture.
Like a man half awake he wandered aimlessly about the town, unable to decide whether he had gone out of his mind or the officials had gone out of theirs, or whether it was all a dream or whether it was a reality more absurd than any dream.
Like a man half awake he wandered aimlessly about the town, unable to decide whether he had gone out of his mind or the officials had gone out of theirs, or whether it was all a dream or whether it was a reality more absurd than any dream.
by Sally Rooney · read April 26, 2022
3rd read (26/04/2022: I finally own a copy of this book and read it again instead of the three other books I'm halfway through. I had forgotten how contained and repressed, ruinous and shattering all of the emotions in this novel are. Finishing this book is like emerging from underwater and feeling the sun on my face, where my inner self interacts with the world and I use my words to express my feelings.
How strange to feel herself so completely under the control of another person, but also how ordinary.
2nd read (24/07/2019): Reread it because I liked it so much and because I was in Ireland. It was actually better the second time around since I focused more on the details. I especially noticed and enjoyed Rooney's descriptions of college and college conversations.
In just a few weeks' time Marianne will live with different people, and life will be different. But she herself will not be different. She'll be the same person, trapped inside her own body. There's nowhere she can go that would free her from this.
1st read (25/06/2019): I really loved this novel — I have a soft spot for romances with alternating perspectives, especially when characters are bad at communication, and I liked the way that Marianne and Connell's circumstances keep changing but their roles in each other's lives always seem congruous with what they're experiencing. I also liked the detail oriented but somewhat disconnected writing style; it's not for everyone but I'm partial to it.
How strange to feel herself so completely under the control of another person, but also how ordinary.
2nd read (24/07/2019): Reread it because I liked it so much and because I was in Ireland. It was actually better the second time around since I focused more on the details. I especially noticed and enjoyed Rooney's descriptions of college and college conversations.
In just a few weeks' time Marianne will live with different people, and life will be different. But she herself will not be different. She'll be the same person, trapped inside her own body. There's nowhere she can go that would free her from this.
1st read (25/06/2019): I really loved this novel — I have a soft spot for romances with alternating perspectives, especially when characters are bad at communication, and I liked the way that Marianne and Connell's circumstances keep changing but their roles in each other's lives always seem congruous with what they're experiencing. I also liked the detail oriented but somewhat disconnected writing style; it's not for everyone but I'm partial to it.
by Sequoia Nagamatsu · read April 16, 2022
Reading this novel felt like Nagamatsu crafted a story as a symphony; the tone and timbre of the book shifted as I read, and certain themes started with one character and were then picked up and developed by those that followed, echoing throughout the narrative. Occasionally the prose was too fanciful and some themes too heavy-handed, but overall I thought it was well-crafted and well-written. It certainly left an impression on me.
by Anna Wiener · read March 18, 2022
More thoughts to follow in an intentionally incoherent blog post, but this was a good read — entertaining and interrogative.
For nearly two years, I had been seduced by the confidence of young men. They made it look so simple, knowing what you wanted and getting it.
For nearly two years, I had been seduced by the confidence of young men. They made it look so simple, knowing what you wanted and getting it.
by Kim Fu · read March 15, 2022
To start, I acknowledge that I read this book at the wrong time — it arrived at the library shortly after I stopped reading Exhalation because I wasn't in the mood for short stories, and although I decided to power through Lesser Known Monsters it inevitably just wasn't what I wanted to be reading.
Disclaimer aside, this collection was very hit-or-miss for me. My favourites were:
Disclaimer aside, this collection was very hit-or-miss for me. My favourites were:
- 'Pre-Simulation Consultation XF007867', a transcript of a conversation between a participant and a simulation operator that illuminated the fuzzy moral ground of new technologies;
- 'Do You Remember Candy', in which everyone on Earth loses their sense of taste at once, that reminded me not to take the world I have for granted; and
- 'June Bugs', about a woman who, in fleeing her abusive partner, ends up in a house infested with bugs, which provided such a visceral metaphor for what we're willing to tolerate
by Kirstin Valdez Quade · read February 19, 2022
Sometimes, as I'm reading, I get a sharp sense of dread about whatever will happen in the next few paragraphs and I compulsively skip ahead to check and see if I'm right about what's coming next. I always flip back to where I started and read it through properly, but I just want to know how the scene will end.
I tore through this novel, and I think I had to skip ahead several times while reading it — the most I've ever done it in recent memory. It gripped my attention: I needed to find out what would come of the Padilla family, needed to see what would happen when the knife hanging over them fell.
For that reason, I think the novel was well-written, since it pulled me into their world and made me care about what happened next. But I didn't fully enjoy reading it, because the dsyfunction bothered me, and whenever things got better I felt like they would just get worse again. (Also, I didn't like the ending.) But maybe that was the point, and if it was I applaud Valdez Quade.
As she pulls into her driveway, something sharp twists above her heart. It hurts, the knowledge that life can still hold moments like these. Out of nowhere, a dance, a visitation, a kiss. This is the world she's leaving.
I tore through this novel, and I think I had to skip ahead several times while reading it — the most I've ever done it in recent memory. It gripped my attention: I needed to find out what would come of the Padilla family, needed to see what would happen when the knife hanging over them fell.
For that reason, I think the novel was well-written, since it pulled me into their world and made me care about what happened next. But I didn't fully enjoy reading it, because the dsyfunction bothered me, and whenever things got better I felt like they would just get worse again. (Also, I didn't like the ending.) But maybe that was the point, and if it was I applaud Valdez Quade.
As she pulls into her driveway, something sharp twists above her heart. It hurts, the knowledge that life can still hold moments like these. Out of nowhere, a dance, a visitation, a kiss. This is the world she's leaving.
by Hermann Hesse · read February 18, 2022
Reading this reminded me of a quote from Kafka's "On Parables" that I've been thinking about lately: "All these parables really set out to say merely that the incomprehensible is incomprehensible, and we know that already."
You have done so by your own seeking in your own way, through thought, through meditation, through knowledge, through enlightenment. You have learned nothing through teachings, and so I think, O Illustrious One, that nobody finds salvation through teachings. To nobody, O Illustrious One, can you communicate in words and teachings, what happened to you in the hour of your enlightenment. ... That is why I am going on my way — not to seek another and better doctrine, for I know there is none, but to leave all doctrines and all teachers and to reach my goal alone — or die.
You have done so by your own seeking in your own way, through thought, through meditation, through knowledge, through enlightenment. You have learned nothing through teachings, and so I think, O Illustrious One, that nobody finds salvation through teachings. To nobody, O Illustrious One, can you communicate in words and teachings, what happened to you in the hour of your enlightenment. ... That is why I am going on my way — not to seek another and better doctrine, for I know there is none, but to leave all doctrines and all teachers and to reach my goal alone — or die.
by Juhea Kim · read February 8, 2022
What struck me about this book is that it felt a little scattered as a novel, but in return much more representative of real life. I didn't feel like it had a strong plot — the story is that of Korean independence told through the experiences of an array of characters, but it didn't feel like there was a narrative arc beyond the political and material setting (maybe the relationship between Jade and JungHo, but it certainly wasn't a dominating feature of the book). It was precisely that quality that made it feel just like life, which is a story that we all co-create but doesn't have an overarching theme or a denouement. When I finished reading it, I felt like I had lived for a very long time, and through a lot.
He breathed in the night air and was surprised to discover a brief, sharp pang of exhilaration. It was just the feeling of being awake at that hour between the deepest night and the earliest morning. He was reminded of being sixteen or so and staying up all night to read a book, more awake and alive than in the middle of the day. He was sure then of having his entire life ahead of him, and the fresh and smoky smell of 4:00 A.M. had filled him with senseless happiness. Now he was a crippled man with snow-white hair—and the years had passed in the blink of an eye. The meaning of old age was that all the bliss in one's life must now be found looking backward, not forward. But he had played his part, he'd lived for something greater than himself. ... This, the everlasting stillness of morning, brought him unbearable joy and sorrow. Tears flowed down his cheeks raked by time. Death was such a small price to pay for life.
He breathed in the night air and was surprised to discover a brief, sharp pang of exhilaration. It was just the feeling of being awake at that hour between the deepest night and the earliest morning. He was reminded of being sixteen or so and staying up all night to read a book, more awake and alive than in the middle of the day. He was sure then of having his entire life ahead of him, and the fresh and smoky smell of 4:00 A.M. had filled him with senseless happiness. Now he was a crippled man with snow-white hair—and the years had passed in the blink of an eye. The meaning of old age was that all the bliss in one's life must now be found looking backward, not forward. But he had played his part, he'd lived for something greater than himself. ... This, the everlasting stillness of morning, brought him unbearable joy and sorrow. Tears flowed down his cheeks raked by time. Death was such a small price to pay for life.
by Julia Galef · read January 3, 2022
Yet another strong rec from the esteemed Henry! I was probably the target audience for this book — interested in rationality and convinced of its merits but uninformed about specific tools or strategies — and I found it entertaining and practical. Parts 2 and 4, 'Developing Self-Awareness' and 'Changing Your Mind', were the most applicable to me; I especially liked the sections on using thought experiments to detect bias, applying the equivalent bet test to approximate quantitative estimates, and 'leaning into confusion' when faced with 'irrational' behaviour. Most of the anecdotes helped add colour and personality to the writing, but my one petty gripe is that I'm so over reading the same stories about the same billionaires again and again. Otherwise, this was a worthwhile read, and I'm excited to put some of what I've learned into practice!
Our judgment isn't limited by knowledge as much as it's limited by attitude.
Our judgment isn't limited by knowledge as much as it's limited by attitude.
by Jo Hamya · read January 2, 2022
Initially this seemed like the kind of book I would really like, but it fell flat for me. I might have enjoyed it more if I had attended Oxford or if I knew anything about British politics. I don't think I understood the book at all, but my current hypothesis is that it was a satire about self-consciousness.
It seemed to me that even the highest echelons of power existed by virtue of their quarters; would be loath to give them up. I supposed it was not an entirely illogical proposition. Perhaps what the rampant racism, anti-immigration policy, and classism came down to was an arbitrarily powerful group of people wanting to preserve a world which could birth them into secure rooms; give them dorms in Eton and Oxford, chambers in Westminster, then a pension and country house to retire in.
It seemed to me that even the highest echelons of power existed by virtue of their quarters; would be loath to give them up. I supposed it was not an entirely illogical proposition. Perhaps what the rampant racism, anti-immigration policy, and classism came down to was an arbitrarily powerful group of people wanting to preserve a world which could birth them into secure rooms; give them dorms in Eton and Oxford, chambers in Westminster, then a pension and country house to retire in.
by Richard Powers · read December 25, 2021
This felt like a novel that was 'about' many things, but the most notable to me was mysteries: the mystery of another person's interior experiences, of whether or not life exists beyond Earth, and of our meek acceptance of modern life's travesties. It was accurately characterized as a book that asks questions rather than answers them, and I liked that it reinvigorated my sense of wonder in the world. I enjoyed the different threads running through the story—my favourite was Robin's activism—but a couple of them felt underdeveloped, and the pacing of the story felt off at times.
I felt us travelling on a small craft, piloting through the capital city of the reigning global superpower on the coast of the third largest continent of an smallish, rocky world near the inner rim of the habitable zone of a G-type dwarf star that lay a quarter of the way out to the edge of a dense, large, barred, spiral galaxy that drifted through a thinly spread local cluster in the dead center of the entire universe.
We pulled into the hotel's circular drive and the cabbie said, 'Here we are. Comfort Inn.'
I felt us travelling on a small craft, piloting through the capital city of the reigning global superpower on the coast of the third largest continent of an smallish, rocky world near the inner rim of the habitable zone of a G-type dwarf star that lay a quarter of the way out to the edge of a dense, large, barred, spiral galaxy that drifted through a thinly spread local cluster in the dead center of the entire universe.
We pulled into the hotel's circular drive and the cabbie said, 'Here we are. Comfort Inn.'
by Adam Wathan · read December 1, 2021
This is a great resource for software developers who work on UIs; it provides clear, useful advice without any fluff.
(Thank you Daniel for the excellent suggestion to dig up my literary past. So far my integrity is intact!)
(Thank you Daniel for the excellent suggestion to dig up my literary past. So far my integrity is intact!)
by Aditya Y. Bhargava · read November 30, 2021
Clear explanations and fun illustrations of some useful algorithms to know. Suitable for beginners or to refresh your memory if you've already studied algorithms. I found a few errors in the book, and there were a couple concepts (like P vs. NP problems) which felt like they were too simplified (although I could just be out of touch).
by Bred Stulberg · read November 23, 2021
Felt like an overview of content I already knew, and nothing really stood out to me so it was a bit boring to read (especially right after reading A Liberated Mind). Although I understood why they were included, the descriptions of athletes and executives didn't interest me. I did appreciate the inclusion of the 'recommended reading' section at the end and will definitely check out David Whyte and Eric Fromm.
What I am interested in is convergence. If multiple fields of scientific inquiry, the world's major wisdom traditions, and the practices of highly fulfilled peak performers all point toward the same truths, then they are probably worth paying attention to.
What I am interested in is convergence. If multiple fields of scientific inquiry, the world's major wisdom traditions, and the practices of highly fulfilled peak performers all point toward the same truths, then they are probably worth paying attention to.
by Gary Shteyngart · read November 21, 2021
Entertaining, in a self-congratulatory and -indulgent 'educated liberal' kind of way. Each of the storylines felt like it could have been developed a bit more, and I thought the ending was fragmented and weird. I loved the scene where Dee starts a dinner conversation about privilege — that made the entire novel for me.
He still loved all of her, even the gracelessness of her hungry, perennially dissatisfied immigrant soul, even the cruelty of her turns of phrase and the foulness of her triple-espresso breath. But he had to think like a character in a Chekhov play, forever taunted by desires but trapped in a life much too small to accommodate the entirety of a human being.
He still loved all of her, even the gracelessness of her hungry, perennially dissatisfied immigrant soul, even the cruelty of her turns of phrase and the foulness of her triple-espresso breath. But he had to think like a character in a Chekhov play, forever taunted by desires but trapped in a life much too small to accommodate the entirety of a human being.
by Brit Bennett · read November 18, 2021
I really liked the novel's setup, but felt a bit disappointed by its conclusion. I was much more interested in Desiree and Stella than I was in Jude and Kennedy.
This was how Desiree thought of herself then: the single dynamic force in Stella's life, a gust of wind strong enough to rip out her roots. This was the story Desiree needed to tell herself and Stella allowed her to. They both felt safe inside it.
This was how Desiree thought of herself then: the single dynamic force in Stella's life, a gust of wind strong enough to rip out her roots. This was the story Desiree needed to tell herself and Stella allowed her to. They both felt safe inside it.
by Alexandre Dumas · read November 12, 2021
This novel was the height of vicarious enjoyment and even a kind of moral catharsis — an extended fantasy of the poor becoming rich, of good triumphing over evil, of justice being served — that was exciting and satisfying.
'You don't believe in God, but you've just been struck down by God. You don't believe in God, yet all He asks of you is a prayer, a word, a tear in order to forgive you.'
'You don't believe in God, but you've just been struck down by God. You don't believe in God, yet all He asks of you is a prayer, a word, a tear in order to forgive you.'
by Kim Thúy · read November 8, 2021
The lyrical, evocative style of this novel made it enjoyable to read, but I didn't feel connected to the story or the characters — it felt like I was skimming over glassy waters without exploring their depths. Lovely, but left me wanting more.
by James P. Carse · read November 2, 2021
I've seen this book referenced innumerable times and was still wholly unprepared for it; Carse's ideas were novel and illuminating to me. I appreciated the breadth of exploration in the book and the careful attention to making clear distinctions that allowed for that exploration to take place. Chapters 1, 2, and 4 were of the most interest to me — I particularly liked the sections on society and culture and on worlds and audiences. Will definitely come back to this one.
To be playful is not to be trivial or frivolous, or to act as though nothing of consequence will happen. On the contrary, when we are playful with each other we relate as free persons, and the relationship is open to surprise; everything that happens is of consequence.
To be playful is not to be trivial or frivolous, or to act as though nothing of consequence will happen. On the contrary, when we are playful with each other we relate as free persons, and the relationship is open to surprise; everything that happens is of consequence.
by Toni Morrison · read October 31, 2021
The best word I can think of for this novel is 'challenging', both emotionally and structurally. I love Morrison's writing — it's animate, arresting, and demanding, the kind that respects its readers and even pushes back at them.
This soil is bad for certain kinds of flowers. Certain seeds it will not nurture, certain fruit it will not bear, and when the land kills of its own volition, we acquiesce and say the victim had no right to live.
This soil is bad for certain kinds of flowers. Certain seeds it will not nurture, certain fruit it will not bear, and when the land kills of its own volition, we acquiesce and say the victim had no right to live.
by Jenny Odell · read October 27, 2021 · includes notes
I love the cognitive dissonance of identifying this as a productivity book, but this is what productivity books should be: an interrogation of the notions of productivity and optimization and a call to instead exist in time and space with other people. There was so much to love about this book and I essentially highlighted all of it, but in particular I enjoyed the emphasis on bioregionalism, learning how to see through art, and the necessity of encountering other people in reality. Now I just want to read Arendt and people-watch on the TTC.
Practices of attention and curiosity are inherently open-ended, oriented toward something outside of ourselves. Through attention and curiosity, we can suspend our tendency toward instrumental understanding—seeing things or people one-dimensionally as the products of their functions—and instead sit with the unfathomable fact of their existence, which opens up toward us but can never be fully grasped or known.
Practices of attention and curiosity are inherently open-ended, oriented toward something outside of ourselves. Through attention and curiosity, we can suspend our tendency toward instrumental understanding—seeing things or people one-dimensionally as the products of their functions—and instead sit with the unfathomable fact of their existence, which opens up toward us but can never be fully grasped or known.
by Ottessa Moshfegh · read October 19, 2021
It's a novel about a woman taking sleeping pills for an entire year — unsurprisingly, it felt like it just dragged on and nothing happened. That was probably the point, but it doesn't make for a very fun read, and seemed like it made for an even less fun year.
It started off very innocently: I was plagued with misery, anxiety, a wish to escape the prison of my mind and body. Dr. Tuttle confirmed that this was nothing unusual.
It started off very innocently: I was plagued with misery, anxiety, a wish to escape the prison of my mind and body. Dr. Tuttle confirmed that this was nothing unusual.
by Morgan Housel · read October 19, 2021
A collection of twenty short chapters about the psychological and behavioural facets of investing. I think this book is a valuable accompaniment to other investing literature because it helps you to calibrate your expectations and perspectives around finance. Personally, I really liked the emphasis on uncertainty, long tails, endurance, room for error, and knowing the game you're playing. Housel also has a blog — I enjoyed these articles.
Saving is a hedge against life's inevitable ability to surprise the hell out of you at the worst possible moment.
Saving is a hedge against life's inevitable ability to surprise the hell out of you at the worst possible moment.
by Pajtim Statovci · read October 17, 2021
A bleak novel that I would not recommend reading on the train alone on Sunday evening; Bujar's uprootedness struck me deeply. I particularly enjoyed the incorporation of Albanian myths and folklore.
For what I would understand the least, and what she doesn't yet understand at all, is the nature of desire, the numbness that follows when it's fulfilled. ... That's the worst of it all, when nothing is the way you thought, when you realize you've been living a lie, telling yourself a story... the feeling when you return home and switch off all the lights behind you, pull the curtains across the windows, and can no longer feel the motions of your heart; the feeling that you would give everything away to go back to the beginning, to revive your story's origins. Tanja doesn't know there's nothing worse than that.
For what I would understand the least, and what she doesn't yet understand at all, is the nature of desire, the numbness that follows when it's fulfilled. ... That's the worst of it all, when nothing is the way you thought, when you realize you've been living a lie, telling yourself a story... the feeling when you return home and switch off all the lights behind you, pull the curtains across the windows, and can no longer feel the motions of your heart; the feeling that you would give everything away to go back to the beginning, to revive your story's origins. Tanja doesn't know there's nothing worse than that.
by Keith Johnstone · read October 15, 2021
I read this book after seeing it referenced on Ribbonfarm and I'm glad that I did. It speaks to both theatre and life, and I benefited from Johnstone's reflections on education and creativity, his explanation of how status interactions work, and the sections on 'accepting' and 'blocking'. Reading this was entertaining, educational, and eye-opening!
by Stuart Russell · read October 8, 2021 · includes notes
I think this was a fantastic introduction to learning about AI safety and alignment (although I have to read some more about the topics to verify that intuition!). Russell identifies critical issues with the current model of designing machines to pursue specific objectives and proposes an alternative model which instead centers human preferences and accounts for uncertainty. Along with that, he also covers the history of research into intelligence, conceptual breakthroughs required for superintelligence, potential benefits and misuses of AI systems, and the necessity of AI safety research. The book occasionally felt a bit scattered and the ending too abrupt, but otherwise full of interesting information and discussion!
Unfortunately, with superintelligent systems that have a global impact, there are no simulators and no do-overs. It's certainly very hard, and perhaps impossible, for mere humans to anticipate and rule out in advance all the disastrous ways a machine could choose to achieve a specified objective. Generally speaking, if you have one goal and a superintelligent machine has a different, conflicting goal, the machine gets what it wants and you don't.
Unfortunately, with superintelligent systems that have a global impact, there are no simulators and no do-overs. It's certainly very hard, and perhaps impossible, for mere humans to anticipate and rule out in advance all the disastrous ways a machine could choose to achieve a specified objective. Generally speaking, if you have one goal and a superintelligent machine has a different, conflicting goal, the machine gets what it wants and you don't.
by Steven C. Hayes · read October 4, 2021
A comprehensive, readable account of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. It took a while to get through, but it was both informative and practical, and Hayes' tone felt clear and compassionate.
The six pivots can be more simply summarized with this cheat sheet:
The six pivots can be more simply summarized with this cheat sheet:
- See our thoughts with enough distance that we can choose what we do next, regardless of our mind's chatter.
- Notice the story we've constructed of our selves and gain perspective about who we are.
- Allow ourselves to feel even when the feelings are painful or create a sense of vulnerability.
- Direct attention in an intentional way rather than by mere habit, noticing what is present here and now, inside us and out.
by Mikhail Bulgakov · read October 4, 2021
Absurd and entertaining. I loved the Pontius Pilate narrative, appreciated the attention to the difficulty of apartment hunting in Moscow, rooted for Ivan, and did my best to keep up with the rest of the story. My takeaway here is that it's difficult to understand a 'devastating satire of Soviet life' when you know nothing about Soviet life. God bless Richard Pevear for his introduction, although it made far more sense after reading the novel than it did before. Next up... A History of Russia and Dead Souls!
by Samanta Schweblin · read August 29, 2021
Like 'Fever Dream', this novel has a fantastic premise—keeping Furby-like pets that strangers 'dwell' in and control—and an eerie quality to it. I loved the style of vignettes that each explored a different dimension of the idea; the Barcelona vignette, in the home for the elderly, really struck me, and the general theme of connection/voyeurism is especially relevant. I wasn't ready for the ending — the conclusions for Alina, Enzo, Emilia, and Marvin were a lot to take at once.
Sometimes Alina lowered the book and asked him a question, just to find out if the person controlling him was still there with her, or if he'd left the crow to go do something better. The first option, the idea of someone sitting there and staring at her for hours, always intimidated her, and the second offended her. Wasn't her life interesting enough?
Sometimes Alina lowered the book and asked him a question, just to find out if the person controlling him was still there with her, or if he'd left the crow to go do something better. The first option, the idea of someone sitting there and staring at her for hours, always intimidated her, and the second offended her. Wasn't her life interesting enough?
by Kiran Desai · read August 22, 2021
This novel oscillated between sweeping themes and minutiae. The attention to detail and setting is what makes it stand out; it also makes it challenging to read. It tells a sad story, especially its focus on desire and unfulfillment.
But so fluid a thing was love. It wasn't firm, he was learning, it wasn't a scripture; it was a wobbliness that lent itself to betrayal, taking the mold of whatever he poured it into. And in fact, it was difficult to keep from pouring it into numerous vessels. It could be used for all kinds of purposes... He wished it were a constraint. It was truly beginning to frighten him.
But so fluid a thing was love. It wasn't firm, he was learning, it wasn't a scripture; it was a wobbliness that lent itself to betrayal, taking the mold of whatever he poured it into. And in fact, it was difficult to keep from pouring it into numerous vessels. It could be used for all kinds of purposes... He wished it were a constraint. It was truly beginning to frighten him.
by Maria Konnikova · read August 19, 2021
What an engrossing read — an unbelievable story about learning poker from a world-class player while exploring what the game reveals about human psychology and behaviour. This book illuminates not only the game of poker, but the complex interactions of skill and luck every day of our lives; definitely a recommended read!
Here was the cruel truth: we humans too often think ourselves in firm control when we are really playing by the rules of chance.
Here was the cruel truth: we humans too often think ourselves in firm control when we are really playing by the rules of chance.
by Jon Kabat-Zinn · read August 16, 2021 · includes notes
Excellent introduction to the subject; I was especially impressed by the tone and style of the book, which seemed to embody the core principles of mindfulness. The emphasis on being compassionate and non-judgmental was helpful, as were the different metaphors for the mind. Would highly recommend this book to anyone interested in mindfulness!
Liberation from suffering comes from the practice of resting in not knowing, of being aware, of attending to any given circumstance with kindness and clarity.
Liberation from suffering comes from the practice of resting in not knowing, of being aware, of attending to any given circumstance with kindness and clarity.
by Gunnhild Øyehaug · read August 13, 2021
Quirky in its form and voice. The ten main characters are loosely connected in reality (lovers, friends, ex-lovers, coworkers) but share certain qualities of their 'inner lives', most notably the desire for connection and recognition. I liked the novel's creativity and focus on art; at times the writing style made the prose feel laborious. Viggo and Elida's storyline was my favourite.
She's twenty-three years old, and she's already a boat that's frozen in ice. If this were a film, and she were some miserable, closed person, she thinks, something would happen at this point to pull her out of her reclusiveness. If she had braces and wore glasses, this would be the point where someone came along and taught her to wear contact lenses and makeup, and someone else would do her hair. ... But that's not reality! Sigrid wants to shout. People just stay sitting in their rooms. They sit there, and nothing happens. They don't change, they just stay the same. Even if they're only twenty-three years old!
She's twenty-three years old, and she's already a boat that's frozen in ice. If this were a film, and she were some miserable, closed person, she thinks, something would happen at this point to pull her out of her reclusiveness. If she had braces and wore glasses, this would be the point where someone came along and taught her to wear contact lenses and makeup, and someone else would do her hair. ... But that's not reality! Sigrid wants to shout. People just stay sitting in their rooms. They sit there, and nothing happens. They don't change, they just stay the same. Even if they're only twenty-three years old!
by William MacAskill · read August 3, 2021
I found this to be a fairly helpful introduction to some of the core principles of effective altruism: that it's possible to 'do more good' with resources by directing them to certain organizations or causes and that it's worthwhile to research what those organizations or causes are. I appreciated the narrow focus of the book (primarily global health interventions), and was particularly struck by the section about what it means to be wealthy and the potential impact of my donations. Since I'm predisposed to agreeing with the author, I'll probably have to reread this at some point with a more critical eye to his arguments' premises, conclusions, and implications.
by Pierre Bayard · read July 7, 2021 · includes notes
I enjoyed this book; it alternated between providing entertainment and food for thought about what it means to 'read' a book. I especially like the concept of an 'inner book', wherein our own representations shape how we interpret what we read. I also liked the exhortation to never tell an author what you thought about their work, and Wilde's suggestion of publishing lists of books that one shouldn't read.
Every writer who has conversed at any length with an attentive reader, or read an article of any length about himself, has had the uncanny experience of discovering the absence of any connection between what he meant to accomplish and what been grasped of it.
Every writer who has conversed at any length with an attentive reader, or read an article of any length about himself, has had the uncanny experience of discovering the absence of any connection between what he meant to accomplish and what been grasped of it.
by Yiyun Li · read June 26, 2021
I loved the striking prose and the careful attention to the characters' experiences; I felt as if I truly inhabited their world and witnessed the fallout of their childhoods together. I was a bit let down by the resolution of the 'mystery' that carries the plot forward, but I enjoyed the journey.
And then there was Celia—all the Celias of the world—who made it easy for Ruyu to be who she was: their eyes looked neither at nor through her, but looked instead for themselves in her face.
And then there was Celia—all the Celias of the world—who made it easy for Ruyu to be who she was: their eyes looked neither at nor through her, but looked instead for themselves in her face.
by Deborah Levy · read June 14, 2021
I loved this book's reflectiveness and honesty; an exploration of personhood, relationships, constraints, and possibilities. My new mortal enemy is Jean, who insists that bikes not be parked behind trees.
No, there were not that many women I knew who wanted to put the phantom of femininity together again. What is a phantom anyway? The phantom of femininity is an illusion, a delusion, a societal hallucination. She is a very tricky character to play and it is a role (sacrifice, endurance, cheerful suffering) that has made some women go mad. This was not a story I wanted to hear all over again. It was time to find new main characters with other talents.
No, there were not that many women I knew who wanted to put the phantom of femininity together again. What is a phantom anyway? The phantom of femininity is an illusion, a delusion, a societal hallucination. She is a very tricky character to play and it is a role (sacrifice, endurance, cheerful suffering) that has made some women go mad. This was not a story I wanted to hear all over again. It was time to find new main characters with other talents.
by Daniel Heller · read June 6, 2021 · includes notes
Solid collection of practical advice, tips, and strategies for working in software development. It feels funny to be reading a book about how to write an email, but also there are a lot of random useful things to know about the workforce that someone has to teach you! (I actually used his 'introductions' email template shortly after finishing the book and it was very helpful.) I thought that parts two and three — day to day life in the office and communication — were the most applicable to me.
by James Clear · read May 30, 2021
Clear, practical, good advice — what more could you want? I read James Clear's blog and newsletter so I feel like I had already read everything in this book and yet I still enjoyed it so much.
Success is the product of daily habits—not once-in-a-lifetime transformations.
Success is the product of daily habits—not once-in-a-lifetime transformations.
by Un-su Kim · read May 27, 2021
Not quite my style — gritty and Machiavellian — but intriguing and very aptly named.
This world isn't a mess because people are evil. It's because everyone has their own stories and excuses for doing bad things.
This world isn't a mess because people are evil. It's because everyone has their own stories and excuses for doing bad things.
by Adam M. Grant · read May 23, 2021 · includes notes
This book wasn't as rigorous or groundbreaking as I had hoped it would be, but I came away with some useful new ideas — the four mindsets for approaching new ideas, the distinction between relationship and task conflict, and the reason why showing the 'other side' doesn't work (spoiler: binary bias).
by Samantha Hunt · read May 22, 2021
Distinctive, evocative prose for a poignant story. Didn't fully resonate with me, but I appreciated it.
My mother is regularly torn between being herself and being my mother.
My mother is regularly torn between being herself and being my mother.
by Elizabeth Currid-Halkett · read May 20, 2021
I read this purely for fun, enjoyed it, and presently have no formulated opinion about Currid-Halkett's theory of the aspirational class other than it seems intuitively correct to me. I may think harder about this later.
Aspirational class productivity in leisure spills over into all facets of life. Some members are never able to just relax. Even watching television—Mad Men, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, or HBO's latest epic—is about being a part of the cultural zeitgeist. How else can an individual seem informed (and intellectually productive) at a dinner party if he's not spending free time doing things that make him seem smart and culturally aware?
Aspirational class productivity in leisure spills over into all facets of life. Some members are never able to just relax. Even watching television—Mad Men, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, or HBO's latest epic—is about being a part of the cultural zeitgeist. How else can an individual seem informed (and intellectually productive) at a dinner party if he's not spending free time doing things that make him seem smart and culturally aware?
by Emily Thomas · read May 13, 2021
Underwhelming, but it had some interesting parts. It wasn't cohesive at all – each chapter covered its own topic and associated philosophers, which made them very hit and miss. The most interesting sections were the discussion of Henry More's philosophies of space/aesthetics of the infinite and Edmund Burke's distinction between the sublime and the beautiful.
by Lori Gottlieb · read April 28, 2021
I found this memoir entertaining, thought-provoking, and educational — an impressive combination! It was a fascinating look at therapy from both the perspective of the therapist and the patient and written in an engaging, personal style. It made me laugh, made me cry, and made me think — would definitely recommend.
But part of getting to know yourself is to unknow yourself—to let go of the limiting stories you've told yourself about who you are so that you aren't trapped by them, so you can live your life and not the story you've been telling yourself about your life.
But part of getting to know yourself is to unknow yourself—to let go of the limiting stories you've told yourself about who you are so that you aren't trapped by them, so you can live your life and not the story you've been telling yourself about your life.
by Andrew Hallam · read April 11, 2021
Good quality content on personal finance. Mostly introductory, so it was predominantly review for me, but I appreciated his clear explanation of the role of bonds in a portfolio.
by Ling Ma · read February 23, 2021
The best phrase to describe this novel is 'way too real'. Clever, prescient, an excellent read.
What I didn't say was: I know you too well. You live your life idealistically. You think it's possible to opt out of the system. ... I used to admire this about you, how fervently you clung to your beliefs—I called it integrity—but five years of watching you live this way has changed me. In this world, money is freedom. Opting out is not a real choice.
What I didn't say was: I know you too well. You live your life idealistically. You think it's possible to opt out of the system. ... I used to admire this about you, how fervently you clung to your beliefs—I called it integrity—but five years of watching you live this way has changed me. In this world, money is freedom. Opting out is not a real choice.
by Tiago Forte · read February 14, 2021
This book is a collection of Tiago Forte's blog posts/essays about knowledge work. Reading Forte is always an experience for me because I find it challenging to determine whether he's written something brilliant or completely bullshit; however, I'm deeply interested in knowledge work and his writing has exposed me to lots of new ideas and frameworks. As an actual book, the collection was not that cohesive. I liked The Secret Power of Read It Later Apps and Productivity for Precious Snowflakes the most.
Let's rewind a bit. Productivity as we know it is based on delayed gratification, which described a world that was predictable and structured. It was clear what you had to do and in what order — it was just a matter of scheduling and pain tolerance. But delayed gratification is obsolete in a world dominated by VUCA (volatility, uncertainty, complexity and ambiguity), because the pain you're pulling into the present might not even be necessary, and the gratification you're pushing into the future might never materialize. It is not at all clear what must be done and in what order; in fact, it becomes ever more clear that most of the tasks we execute don't make much of a difference, while a tiny percentage randomly and dramatically influence the course of our work and our lives. It makes sense to invest more and more resources in making that distinction, because the absolute fastest way to complete a task or reach an objective is to realize you don't have to.
Let's rewind a bit. Productivity as we know it is based on delayed gratification, which described a world that was predictable and structured. It was clear what you had to do and in what order — it was just a matter of scheduling and pain tolerance. But delayed gratification is obsolete in a world dominated by VUCA (volatility, uncertainty, complexity and ambiguity), because the pain you're pulling into the present might not even be necessary, and the gratification you're pushing into the future might never materialize. It is not at all clear what must be done and in what order; in fact, it becomes ever more clear that most of the tasks we execute don't make much of a difference, while a tiny percentage randomly and dramatically influence the course of our work and our lives. It makes sense to invest more and more resources in making that distinction, because the absolute fastest way to complete a task or reach an objective is to realize you don't have to.
by Tim Ferriss · read February 4, 2021 · includes notes
I found a lot of value from the book's perspective on reimagining and shaping life according to your own terms. At times in the book, this philosophy comes across as overly self-serving and empty, especially the (questionable) premise that life is just about doing what you want. I see the value of passive income, but personally wouldn't want to make a fortune selling something that people don't really need. Nonetheless, I found several of the practical tips helpful, and I enjoyed reading a different perspective.
by Sigrid Nunez · read January 31, 2021
Captivating, beautiful, wrenching prose and storyline. I adore Nunez's writing.
I don't know who it was, but someone, maybe or maybe not Henry James, said that there are two kinds of people in the world: those who upon seeing someone else suffering think, That could happen to me, and those who think, That will never happen to me. The first kind of people help us to endure, the second kind make life hell.
I don't know who it was, but someone, maybe or maybe not Henry James, said that there are two kinds of people in the world: those who upon seeing someone else suffering think, That could happen to me, and those who think, That will never happen to me. The first kind of people help us to endure, the second kind make life hell.
by Sophie Kinsella · read January 30, 2021
Light and entertaining. Makes me feel extremely financially responsible!
by Megha Majumdar · read January 28, 2021
I didn't really click with this one; I was interested enough to keep reading, but the characters fell a bit flat and their storylines weren't as connected as I thought they would be.
by Vicki Robin · read January 28, 2021
This book is not just about personal finance – it's also about reshaping your perspective on your life, your work, and the meaning you attach to money and possessions. Parts of the book I liked the most:
I'm still pondering parts of the book's philosophy; potentially more thoughts to come on that. In the meantime, please enjoy the following callout:
For the sake of order and convenience, we've sorted our lives into boxes. There's our work life, our home life, our community life, our inner life and our secret life. Such 'systems management' allows us to track and balance our many responsibilities. But our prioritized To Do lists are not our lives. In theory they are there to assist us in navigating life—but more often they run us. Rather than perceiving life as a continuing flow of experience in the present moment, we become convinced that we have life captured in a three-ring binder with colored dividers. If we just follow the signs and connect the dots the picture of a perfect life will pop out at us.
- The definition of money as 'something we choose to trade our life energy for'
- The chapter on fulfillment, and thinking through how my expenses are aligned to my purpose and values
- The section on frugality
- The exercise of calculating exactly how much you make per hour and the practice of using that to assess expenses
I'm still pondering parts of the book's philosophy; potentially more thoughts to come on that. In the meantime, please enjoy the following callout:
For the sake of order and convenience, we've sorted our lives into boxes. There's our work life, our home life, our community life, our inner life and our secret life. Such 'systems management' allows us to track and balance our many responsibilities. But our prioritized To Do lists are not our lives. In theory they are there to assist us in navigating life—but more often they run us. Rather than perceiving life as a continuing flow of experience in the present moment, we become convinced that we have life captured in a three-ring binder with colored dividers. If we just follow the signs and connect the dots the picture of a perfect life will pop out at us.
by Alisa Vitti · read January 23, 2021
I read this book very apprehensively, especially because it has a sales-pitch/miracle-cure tone, but it actually taught me a lot about the endocrine system, the menstrual cycle, and how to regulate blood sugar. I also liked the discussion of masculine and feminine energies at the end. If you can breeze over about half of it, you might benefit from the other half.
by Jake Knapp · read January 11, 2021
'Make Time' is written in a distinctively light, conversational tone, which I found unusual but enjoyable. My biggest takeaway was the idea of picking a 'highlight' for the day and making that your focus; otherwise, the book had lots of good advice that I've already heard. Would recommend if you're interested in non-annoying productivity ideas and haven't already read a lot in the genre.
You only waste time if you're not intentional about how you spend it.
You only waste time if you're not intentional about how you spend it.
by Marcus Aurelius · read January 8, 2021
This book is an experience because it's so odd — the private diary of a long-dead Very Important Person who spends a lot of time writing about 'nature', complaining about having to deal with idiots, and musing about death. It seems weird to me that modern tech bros picked up this book, thought 'yes, this is exactly the advice I needed', and adopted Stoicism as their life's philosophy, yet here we are.
My favourite parts: the beginning, where he lists out all the things he's learned from the people he knows, and his advice on the perennial dilemma of hearing someone mispronounce a word: instead of correcting them, you should just pronounce it correctly later in the conversation, and they'll catch their own mistake. #ancientwisdom
My favourite parts: the beginning, where he lists out all the things he's learned from the people he knows, and his advice on the perennial dilemma of hearing someone mispronounce a word: instead of correcting them, you should just pronounce it correctly later in the conversation, and they'll catch their own mistake. #ancientwisdom
by Nicholas A. Christakis · read January 7, 2021
This was a thorough and well-researched look at COVID-19, including comparisons to previous pandemics. I think I picked up this book hoping for answers of some kind – what I wanted, I couldn't tell you, but on that front it obviously could not deliver.
by Tom Rath · read January 7, 2021
I received this book when I was in grade 10, did the quiz, received my strengths assessment, and then forgot all about it. Eight years later, rereading this book and thinking through my strengths has been really helpful! I've shared the 'strength = talent x investment' formula with a few of my friends, and I appreciated the caveat of limiting liabilities. I couldn't redo the quiz, but just reading through the book was enough to identify my top four strengths.
by Charlie Mackesy · read December 29, 2020
Sweet and heartwarming. I love the artwork.
by Marie Kondō · read December 24, 2020
I loved this book - charming and inspirational. The advice I took to heart the most: pick a place for everything to 'live' in your house; don't involve your family in the cleaning process; don't start the process with sentimental items; and only keep things that you truly love.
Life becomes far easier once you know that things will still work out even if you are lacking something.
Life becomes far easier once you know that things will still work out even if you are lacking something.
by Darius Foroux · read December 24, 2020
I like Darius's blog and was hoping to like this book but it just felt jumbled, unfocused, and at times incoherent.
by Seth J. Gillihan · read December 23, 2020
Since this is a workbook and I didn't do all the exercises, I don't know how qualified I am to write a review... nonetheless, I benefitted from the introduction to CBT and thinking through the core belief diagram.
by Zadie Smith · read December 14, 2020
I liked 'Something to Do' and 'Contempt as a Virus', but otherwise the collection didn't particularly stand out to me.
Watching this manic desire to make or grow or do 'something,' that now seems to be consuming everybody, I do feel comforted to discover I'm not the only person on this earth who has no idea what life is for, nor what is to be done with all this time aside from filling it.
Watching this manic desire to make or grow or do 'something,' that now seems to be consuming everybody, I do feel comforted to discover I'm not the only person on this earth who has no idea what life is for, nor what is to be done with all this time aside from filling it.
by Fumio Sasaki · read November 29, 2020
Too minimal for me, but exposed me to a helpful perspective on minimalism. I thoroughly enjoyed reading the 55 tips. My favourites:
- #8: There isn't a single item you'll regret throwing away
- #20: Let go of the idea of 'someday'
- #21: Say goodbye to who you used to be
- #24: Let go of the idea of getting your money's worth
- #31: Think of stores as your personal warehouses
- #51: If it's not a 'hell, yes!' it's a 'no'
by Frances Cha · read November 24, 2020
Engrossing and insightful, which can be a tricky combination to pull off. It felt like the novel was showing pieces of the characters' lives rather than getting at some kind of message, which I liked. Kyuri and Miho were the most interesting to me.
by Frank Lipman · read November 16, 2020
I really enjoyed the holistic, practical outlook of this book. This is a text I would love to own and constantly reference. After reading it the first time, I made a concerted effort to spend more time in the sun, limit lights in the evening and during sleep, and cuddle my pet bunny more often!
by Tomasz Jedrowski · read November 12, 2020
The best word I can think of to describe this novel is 'enveloping' – Ludwik's experiences felt so raw and all-consuming to me.
I sat in the hallway and tried not to cry. I wanted to cease existing. I wanted to un-be. I sat in the hallways and tried not to think of you and me. ... I tried to imagine my life in the future, in a year or so. I couldn't see anything. I couldn't see anything because anything that wasn't that moment–no, not even that–was beyond me. I started rocking my legs and feet, just to feel something. ... I went home. I would get used to it.
I sat in the hallway and tried not to cry. I wanted to cease existing. I wanted to un-be. I sat in the hallways and tried not to think of you and me. ... I tried to imagine my life in the future, in a year or so. I couldn't see anything. I couldn't see anything because anything that wasn't that moment–no, not even that–was beyond me. I started rocking my legs and feet, just to feel something. ... I went home. I would get used to it.
by Yaa Gyasi · read October 27, 2020
A stunning exploration of the main character Gifty's relationships - to God, to her family, to truth, to herself. I loved so many things about this novel.
'What's the point?' became a refrain for me as I went through the motions. One of my mice in particular brought those words out every time I observed him. He was hopelessly addicted to Ensure, pressing the lever so often that he'd developed a psychosomatic limp in anticipation of the random shocks. Still, he soldiered on, hobbling to that lever to press and press and press again. Soon he would be one of the mice I used in optogenetics, but not before I watched him repeat his doomed actions with that beautifully pure, deluded hope of an addict, the hope that says, 'This time will be different. This time I'll make it out okay.'
'What's the point of all of this?' is a question that separates humans from other animals. Our curiosity around this issue has sparked everything from science to literature to philosophy to religion. When the answer to this question is 'Because God deemed it so,' we might feel comforted. But what if the answer to this question is 'I don't know,' or worse still, 'Nothing'?
'What's the point?' became a refrain for me as I went through the motions. One of my mice in particular brought those words out every time I observed him. He was hopelessly addicted to Ensure, pressing the lever so often that he'd developed a psychosomatic limp in anticipation of the random shocks. Still, he soldiered on, hobbling to that lever to press and press and press again. Soon he would be one of the mice I used in optogenetics, but not before I watched him repeat his doomed actions with that beautifully pure, deluded hope of an addict, the hope that says, 'This time will be different. This time I'll make it out okay.'
'What's the point of all of this?' is a question that separates humans from other animals. Our curiosity around this issue has sparked everything from science to literature to philosophy to religion. When the answer to this question is 'Because God deemed it so,' we might feel comforted. But what if the answer to this question is 'I don't know,' or worse still, 'Nothing'?
by Robert A. Glover · read October 16, 2020
Some solid advice about setting boundaries and prioritizing your own needs. A bit repetitive; I sped-read the last few chapters.
Nice Guys are concerned about looking good and doing it 'right.' They are happiest when they are making others happy. Nice Guys avoid conflict like the plague and will go to great lengths to avoid upsetting anyone. In general, Nice Guys are peaceful and generous. Nice Guys are especially concerned about pleasing women and being different from other men. In a nutshell, Nice Guys believe that if they are good, giving, and caring, they will in return be happy, loved, and fulfilled. ...
This myth is the essence of what I call the Nice Guy Syndrome. The Nice Guy Syndrome represents a belief that if Nice Guys are 'good,' they will be loved, get their needs met, and live a problem-free life. When this life strategy fails to produce the desired results — as it often does — Nice Guys usually just try harder, doing more of the same. Due to the sense of helplessness and resentment this pattern inevitably produces, Nice Guys are often anything but nice.
Nice Guys are concerned about looking good and doing it 'right.' They are happiest when they are making others happy. Nice Guys avoid conflict like the plague and will go to great lengths to avoid upsetting anyone. In general, Nice Guys are peaceful and generous. Nice Guys are especially concerned about pleasing women and being different from other men. In a nutshell, Nice Guys believe that if they are good, giving, and caring, they will in return be happy, loved, and fulfilled. ...
This myth is the essence of what I call the Nice Guy Syndrome. The Nice Guy Syndrome represents a belief that if Nice Guys are 'good,' they will be loved, get their needs met, and live a problem-free life. When this life strategy fails to produce the desired results — as it often does — Nice Guys usually just try harder, doing more of the same. Due to the sense of helplessness and resentment this pattern inevitably produces, Nice Guys are often anything but nice.
by Nadia Bolz-Weber · read October 15, 2020
In my opinion, this book deeply lacked intellectual integrity – (willful?) Scriptural misinterpretations abound. I have a 'say it with your chest' stance when it comes to Scripture - if you disagree with the Bible, that's one thing, but rearranging it to mean what you'd like is disingenuous.
by Donella H. Meadows · read October 13, 2020
This was an excellent introduction to systems thinking — Meadows covers core concepts and terminology, strengths and pitfalls, and approaches, plus she includes explanatory diagrams! I found the elaboration on feedback loops helpful and the discussion about system boundaries interesting. Bonus points for having a summary at the end!
Everything, as they say, is connected to everything else, and not neatly. There is no clearly determinable boundary between the sea and the land, between sociology and anthropology, between an automobile's exhaust and your nose. There are only boundaries of word, thought, perception, and social agreement—artificial, mental-model boundaries.
Everything, as they say, is connected to everything else, and not neatly. There is no clearly determinable boundary between the sea and the land, between sociology and anthropology, between an automobile's exhaust and your nose. There are only boundaries of word, thought, perception, and social agreement—artificial, mental-model boundaries.
by Hal Edward Runkel · read October 6, 2020
Short and sweet — a father's advice to his college-aged daughter about making choices as an adult. I enjoyed the down-to-earth wisdom; this book is an encouragement to live with integrity and courage.
by Megan Campisi · read September 25, 2020
I enjoyed the premise and setting of this story but not particularly the plot. Fun to read but not too substantial.
by Nikolai Gogol · read August 10, 2020
A lovely, surprisingly sad short story. There should be more joy in the world and more efforts to preserve it.
Indeed, one young man who had only recently been appointed to the department and who, following the example of the others, tried to have some fun at his expense, stopped abruptly at Akaky's mild expostulation, as though stabbed through the heart; and since then everything seemed to have changed in him and he saw everything in quite a different light.
Indeed, one young man who had only recently been appointed to the department and who, following the example of the others, tried to have some fun at his expense, stopped abruptly at Akaky's mild expostulation, as though stabbed through the heart; and since then everything seemed to have changed in him and he saw everything in quite a different light.
by Gary Chapman · read August 9, 2020
This book elaborates on a useful framework for understanding how we 'do' love – conceptualizing love as an action rather than just a feeling. Some of the book's examples and reasoning felt out of touch or simplistic, but thinking through some of the ways we can express and receive love felt fruitful.
We can recognize the in-love experience for what it was—a temporary emotional high—and now pursue 'real love' with our spouse. That kind of love is emotional in nature but not obsessional. It is a love that unites reason and emotion. It involves an act of the will and requires discipline, and it recognizes the need for personal growth. Our most basic emotional need is not to fall in love but to be genuinely loved by another, to know a love that grows out of reason and choice, not instinct. I need to be loved by someone who chooses to love me, who sees in me something worth loving.
We can recognize the in-love experience for what it was—a temporary emotional high—and now pursue 'real love' with our spouse. That kind of love is emotional in nature but not obsessional. It is a love that unites reason and emotion. It involves an act of the will and requires discipline, and it recognizes the need for personal growth. Our most basic emotional need is not to fall in love but to be genuinely loved by another, to know a love that grows out of reason and choice, not instinct. I need to be loved by someone who chooses to love me, who sees in me something worth loving.
by Ian Williams · read July 9, 2020
I was really impressed with this novel, which was both structurally creative and emotionally enthralling. The way that Williams played with form within the book definitely enhanced the narrative for me, especially the exponentially fragmented narrative in Part 3 and the 'cancerous' invasion of Felicia and Edgar's first meeting in Part 4. Shielding the identity of the characters at times, either through omission or alternate terminology, reinforced the universality of certain family experiences. I also personally enjoyed that it was set in Toronto and Brampton.
What particularly struck me about the characters was the influence of power on the many relationships in the book and how realistic it made those relationships seem. There was a clear chord throughout the story of the male characters either exerting power over the female characters or wrapped up in their own pursuit of money, status, sex, and authority at the expense of others. This focus was paired with an emphasis on care-giving and what it means to provide for one another, which are equally relevant to family dynamics and perhaps provide a more generous view into the inner workings of our families of blood and choice.
Reproduction mixed light elements of drama and humor with heavier scenes of loss, harm, and grief to produce an insightful, enjoyable examination of family relationships.
What particularly struck me about the characters was the influence of power on the many relationships in the book and how realistic it made those relationships seem. There was a clear chord throughout the story of the male characters either exerting power over the female characters or wrapped up in their own pursuit of money, status, sex, and authority at the expense of others. This focus was paired with an emphasis on care-giving and what it means to provide for one another, which are equally relevant to family dynamics and perhaps provide a more generous view into the inner workings of our families of blood and choice.
Reproduction mixed light elements of drama and humor with heavier scenes of loss, harm, and grief to produce an insightful, enjoyable examination of family relationships.
by Nisid Hajari · read July 5, 2020
This book is a detailed historical account of the Partition of India that taught me a lot about the political, religious, and geographic landscape of both India and Pakistan. I would recommend reading this, and with a map handy.
by Meg Jay · read June 28, 2020
To summarize what was a repetitive book: 'don't waste your 20s, get a real job and a serious relationship'. This book is dedicated to arguing against the 'common' belief that young adults just spend their 20s having fun, causing them to get behind on life. As I've never met anyone who holds that belief, its premise was shaky to start. Consequently, a lot of the advice came across as dated, condescending, or simplistic.
In general, light on the practical tips and heavy on the scare tactics. Would not recommend and I'm sure you could find more useful, modern advice elsewhere.
Gave it 2 stars instead of 1 because it at least provided a few helpful ideas for me – building your identity capital, taking advantage of the weaker ties in your social network, the importance of developing a coherent personal story, and making timelines for your goals to verify feasibility.
In general, light on the practical tips and heavy on the scare tactics. Would not recommend and I'm sure you could find more useful, modern advice elsewhere.
Gave it 2 stars instead of 1 because it at least provided a few helpful ideas for me – building your identity capital, taking advantage of the weaker ties in your social network, the importance of developing a coherent personal story, and making timelines for your goals to verify feasibility.
by Mary Beth Keane · read June 27, 2020
Couldn't get behind this one either. I did like the arc/resolution of the main conflict in the novel and reading about Peter's experience in high school and college, but overall the perspectives of the other characters never seemed interior enough and the story was painted in too broad strokes for my liking.
by Emily Henry · read June 21, 2020
Fun premise with snarky banter and some cute moments - I enjoyed it! Especially liked that they were authors and felt like it added something unique to the story, and also liked that Gus was mysterious without being a jerk.
by José Saramago · read June 21, 2020
Unsettling and insightful, this novel explores human nature in the midst of an epidemic of blindness. The content of the story itself is suitably horrifying and paired with a distinctive narrative voice that ranges from wry to earnest, pedantic to empathetic, detailed to sweeping. I think the most jarring qualities of the novel are the prose itself, which runs on and on, and its divided attention between the most base and the most noble conditions of human existence.
One thing I particularly liked in the story is the ironic use of omniscience – that in a mental hospital entirely occupied by the blind, there is an insistence that its horrors and trials be witnessed. Reading the book, then, felt like a kind of participation in that process, demanding a willingness to see something that others refused to, asserting that people are still there even if they're not seen.
Yesterday we could see, today we can't, tomorrow we shall see again, with a slight interrogatory note on the third and final line of the phrase, as if prudence, at the last moment, had decided, just in case, to add a touch of doubt to the hopeful conclusion.
One thing I particularly liked in the story is the ironic use of omniscience – that in a mental hospital entirely occupied by the blind, there is an insistence that its horrors and trials be witnessed. Reading the book, then, felt like a kind of participation in that process, demanding a willingness to see something that others refused to, asserting that people are still there even if they're not seen.
Yesterday we could see, today we can't, tomorrow we shall see again, with a slight interrogatory note on the third and final line of the phrase, as if prudence, at the last moment, had decided, just in case, to add a touch of doubt to the hopeful conclusion.
by Jeffrey Eugenides · read June 21, 2020
Usually I really enjoy novels set in college but I didn't really like this one. I thought it was clever and I enjoyed reading about semiotics class, but I couldn't get behind either Madeleine or Leonard so the following 2/3s of the novel dragged on (unless they were about Mitchell).
Reading a novel after reading semiotic theory was like jogging empty-handed after jogging with hand weights. ... How wonderful it was when one sentence followed logically from the sentence before! What exquisite guilt she felt, wickedly enjoying narrative! Madeleine felt safe with a nineteenth-century novel. There were going to be people in it. Something was going to happen to them in a place resembling the world.
Reading a novel after reading semiotic theory was like jogging empty-handed after jogging with hand weights. ... How wonderful it was when one sentence followed logically from the sentence before! What exquisite guilt she felt, wickedly enjoying narrative! Madeleine felt safe with a nineteenth-century novel. There were going to be people in it. Something was going to happen to them in a place resembling the world.
by Cal Newport · read June 20, 2020 · includes notes
This book is a fantastic resource for how to approach technology usage with intentionality and purpose. I've been thinking about how to reshape my relationship to digital media for a while now, particularly with the desire to move beyond hacks into an actual system for engaging with technology without letting it control my life, and I've already gleaned so many ideas from reading this. The TL;DR of the rest of this review is that the book is concise and well structured with some excellent ideas in it.
Newport divides this book into two sections: 'Foundations' provides a brief synopsis of our current predicament and outlines the principles of digital minimalism, then 'Practices' gives ideas about steps you could take to follow those principles and live a less distracted, more joyful life. The heart of the book is the idea that you should cut back on all but those digital activities which actually add significant value to your life, and use them strategically towards that end. Building a philosophy of technology based on your core personal values makes so much sense to me! I also thought that his suggested practices covered an excellent breadth of ideas, and I especially enjoyed the reflection on the importance of solitude and the benefit of structured sociality.
I also liked that this book was well structured and written - the chapters were internally cohesive, key ideas were broken down then elaborated upon, and it was informative but very direct. These characteristics lend to the practical quality of the book, which was what I was looking for and definitely appeals to the way I think. For anyone interested in rethinking their technology usage, I would definitely recommend the book.
Newport divides this book into two sections: 'Foundations' provides a brief synopsis of our current predicament and outlines the principles of digital minimalism, then 'Practices' gives ideas about steps you could take to follow those principles and live a less distracted, more joyful life. The heart of the book is the idea that you should cut back on all but those digital activities which actually add significant value to your life, and use them strategically towards that end. Building a philosophy of technology based on your core personal values makes so much sense to me! I also thought that his suggested practices covered an excellent breadth of ideas, and I especially enjoyed the reflection on the importance of solitude and the benefit of structured sociality.
I also liked that this book was well structured and written - the chapters were internally cohesive, key ideas were broken down then elaborated upon, and it was informative but very direct. These characteristics lend to the practical quality of the book, which was what I was looking for and definitely appeals to the way I think. For anyone interested in rethinking their technology usage, I would definitely recommend the book.
by Barbara Oakley · read June 19, 2020
Read this book as an accompaniment to the Coursera online course, which I'm really enjoying! The book itself provides an excellent explanation of the core ideas of the course, plus some additional material and discussion questions. There were a few chapters near the end that didn't seem totally necessary, but overall I think this is an excellent resource, especially for students in STEM courses.
My key takeaways from the book were: the importance of switching between focused thinking and diffuse thinking (shifting your attention so that your brain works in the background), the emphasis on repeating ideas over time and being patient in learning incrementally to build strong ideas, and the concept of 'chunking', which solidifies a concept or strategy in your mind so that you can easily use it when you need it. Looking forward to applying some of these ideas as I continue to learn!
My key takeaways from the book were: the importance of switching between focused thinking and diffuse thinking (shifting your attention so that your brain works in the background), the emphasis on repeating ideas over time and being patient in learning incrementally to build strong ideas, and the concept of 'chunking', which solidifies a concept or strategy in your mind so that you can easily use it when you need it. Looking forward to applying some of these ideas as I continue to learn!
by Kawai Strong Washburn · read May 31, 2020
I loved that the language of this novel crackles with the intensity that Washburn's characters experience in this story. The characters were so well crafted, and I particularly liked that as a family they recognized things in each other and themselves that no one else saw.
The house pops and creaks and flexes around us. It's blue and dark out there. I ask Mom if love ever made her feel alone. If it ever made her feel like she was starving in a room full of food. She laughs. 'Only every day.'
The house pops and creaks and flexes around us. It's blue and dark out there. I ask Mom if love ever made her feel alone. If it ever made her feel like she was starving in a room full of food. She laughs. 'Only every day.'
by Sally Rooney · read May 17, 2020
I wasn't convinced by the synopsis of this book, but I enjoyed Normal People so much that I gave it a shot and I'm happy that I did. Frances' personality works perfectly with the style of the book, simultaneously detached and too vulnerable, which made the story feel very raw and distinctively mesmerizing to me.
I hung up the phone. After that I put some cold water on my face and dried it, the same face I had always had, the one I would have until I died.
I hung up the phone. After that I put some cold water on my face and dried it, the same face I had always had, the one I would have until I died.
by Chris Voss · read May 15, 2020
For now, I'd say this book was a worthwhile read because I have no understanding of negotiation techniques and it offers a wide toolkit that I'm interested in trying out (can't speak yet to whether or not these techniques actually work).
My issue with the book is that it contained way too many pointless stories about the FBI. The anecdotes about specific students using specific techniques in specific, real life circumstances were helpful examples of actual scripts for the tools. When it already had these, why did the book need to include so many long-winded descriptions of FBI hostage takeovers (or screw-ups)?
My issue with the book is that it contained way too many pointless stories about the FBI. The anecdotes about specific students using specific techniques in specific, real life circumstances were helpful examples of actual scripts for the tools. When it already had these, why did the book need to include so many long-winded descriptions of FBI hostage takeovers (or screw-ups)?
by Alexandra Chang · read May 8, 2020
Slow, contemplative, enjoyable read. I'm nearly the same age as the narrator, so I found myself reflecting and musing along with her throughout the book. I especially liked reading about her relationship with her dad and her visit to China to see him – the passage about conflict, trust, and counting specifically stood out to me, and almost all their dialogue made me smile.
It is the nature of relationships that they are impossible to fully understand from the outside, their inner workings built both from memories and habits and histories made up from the exterior world, that exist only through them and are lost when they are lost to each other. A relationship is particular in the way people are particular.
It is the nature of relationships that they are impossible to fully understand from the outside, their inner workings built both from memories and habits and histories made up from the exterior world, that exist only through them and are lost when they are lost to each other. A relationship is particular in the way people are particular.
by Fyodor Dostoyevsky · read May 2, 2020
An absolutely incredible book. If I think about the scope and depth of the plot and characterizations, it definitely contained multiple novels. I especially enjoyed the mini-stories within the greater scheme of the plot, like Zosima's life story and Kolya and Ilyusha's friendship and fallout, and the characters' discussions about faith and conviction.
In some novels, there's a sentence or turn of phrase that seems to encapsulate something critical to the heart of the book. In this case, at the very end of the story, Kolya remarks to Alyosha that their religion is so strange because it involves 'such grief, and then pancakes'. What a perfect summary of an 800 page novel in only 5 words!
In some novels, there's a sentence or turn of phrase that seems to encapsulate something critical to the heart of the book. In this case, at the very end of the story, Kolya remarks to Alyosha that their religion is so strange because it involves 'such grief, and then pancakes'. What a perfect summary of an 800 page novel in only 5 words!
by Zoe Whittall · read April 20, 2020
Couldn't get behind this one - the characters felt far too flat and the discussions about sexual assault seemed so unnatural and scripted. The premise was great but it lacked the credibility in spirit that would have made it worthwhile.
by Wallace Stegner · read March 28, 2020
This book reminded me of Stoner - steady, uneventful, but still insightful and interesting. I liked Larry as a narrator and I especially liked reading about Sid and Charity, their personalities and marriage, through his eyes. This book felt like the opposite of glamorous - it was focused on the day-to-day, up-and-down moments of lives spent voluntarily tangled up in each other. My favorite scene is the argument between Sid and Charity about packing the tea before the hike; it felt so incredibly vivid and real to me.
There is nothing like a doorbell to precipitate the potential into the kinetic. When you stand outside a door and push the button, something has to happen. Someone must respond; whatever is inside must be revealed. Questions will be answered, uncertainties or mysteries dispelled. A situation will be started on its way through unknown complications to an unpredictable conclusion.
There is nothing like a doorbell to precipitate the potential into the kinetic. When you stand outside a door and push the button, something has to happen. Someone must respond; whatever is inside must be revealed. Questions will be answered, uncertainties or mysteries dispelled. A situation will be started on its way through unknown complications to an unpredictable conclusion.
by Haruki Murakami · read March 18, 2020
Read it after watching 'Burning', though in retrospect I would have enjoyed reading it prior to seeing the film. I like Murakami's voice and his unwillingness to demand a certain response from the reader, and the story really illuminates the creativity of Lee Chang Dong in extending it in the film the way he did.
by Yiyun Li · read March 6, 2020
Such a distinctive, poignant book. I love that it managed to speak to the limits of language and understanding, the relationship between parents and children, the irreplaceable individuality of the people we love, and the unknowability of death... all while staying intimate, personal, not at all didactic.
There were so many could'ves at this moment. I could go down any one of them like a path that led to nowhere, only to end up somewhere between doubt and regret. It was the maze I had decided not to set foot in. I would rather be here, hovering at the entrance, feeling and resisting the temptation of self-indulgence.
There were so many could'ves at this moment. I could go down any one of them like a path that led to nowhere, only to end up somewhere between doubt and regret. It was the maze I had decided not to set foot in. I would rather be here, hovering at the entrance, feeling and resisting the temptation of self-indulgence.
by Brandon Taylor · read March 4, 2020
This novel was hard to put down, not because it was plot heavy but because the chord of loneliness is so striking and insightful. I especially loved reading the composition of Wallace's thoughts, but the book was also full of excellent scenes (the dinner party especially).
This too is real life, he thinks. Not merely the accumulation of tasks, things to be done and sorted, but also the bumping up against other lives, everyone in the world insignificant when taken and observed together.
This too is real life, he thinks. Not merely the accumulation of tasks, things to be done and sorted, but also the bumping up against other lives, everyone in the world insignificant when taken and observed together.
by Blake Crouch · read February 28, 2020
Super interesting concept – False Memory Syndrome and the chair were both great vehicles for exploring the philosophical and social facets of memory. Also, part four was suitably horrifying and actually quite distressing, which I attribute to good writing. Conceptually strong, but weak in other areas - the characters didn't feel real to me, the romance at the end wasn't developed enough, I couldn't take the antagonist seriously with a name like 'Marcus Slade', and it was too long/repetitive (maybe the point, but I wasn't into it).
by Eoin Colfer · read February 25, 2020
I was obsessed with this series as a child and decided to reread the first one for kicks. It instantly reminded me of why Lianne and I loved these books – anything that combined magic, strategy, war, and sarcasm was irresistible to us. As an adult I agree with the pro-environment sentiments in the novel and disagree with the pro-cop ones, but it was enjoyable to relive and I was impressed how many plot points or lines came back to me immediately!
by Desmond Cole · read February 24, 2020
This book was an excellent resource for learning more about racism, colonialism, and activism in Canada. It was written in an understandable, personal style that really gripped me, and I was impressed by Cole's ability to communicate so much information in just one book. He addresses several different incidents from 2017, ranging from police brutality to Toronto Pride to deportations, providing necessary context and connecting them to systemic issues. I found that these connections were particularly effective because they provided a way for me to coherently understand the forces underlying what initially seemed like discrete events. My biggest takeaway from the book is that power is extremely effective at protecting itself and that nothing will meaningfully change without activism and intervention.
by Julie Zhuo · read February 20, 2020
Concise, practical, and fairly comprehensive book about how to work as an excellent manager. It was well organized and had some great advice – I've never given much thought to management, but it made me reflect on my workplace, job interviews, and even my work as a program director at camp a couple years ago. Would definitely recommend this one.
The sections I enjoyed the most: analyzing why giving feedback is essential and recommendations for how to provide it effectively; her breakdown of different types of meetings and what a successful outcome looks like for each; and strategies for hiring well and deciding between candidates.
The sections I enjoyed the most: analyzing why giving feedback is essential and recommendations for how to provide it effectively; her breakdown of different types of meetings and what a successful outcome looks like for each; and strategies for hiring well and deciding between candidates.
by Thomas A. Harris · read February 15, 2020
I enjoyed reading about the core concept of transactional analysis: the Parent/Adult/Child breakdown, which Harris explained well with examples of interactions between the different combinations. I also liked his emphasis on agency and thoughtfulness over tradition and pure emotion. Unfortunately, the rest of the book was so outdated and confusing that I couldn't enjoy the experience overall, especially since it was long due to all the extraneous information.
by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi · read February 5, 2020
Long story short, excellent book but not dense enough for my tastes. Csikszentmihalyi presents a clear and compelling thesis about the flow condition and its prerequisites, which I think is extremely valuable and relevant to everyday living. The book starts off strong and ends well but it seemed to me that some of the chapters in the middle were reiterations of the same points and could have been condensed further. Definitely still worth the read!
Flow drives individuals to creativity and outstanding achievement. The necessity to develop increasingly refined skills to sustain enjoyment is what lies behind the evolution of culture.
Flow drives individuals to creativity and outstanding achievement. The necessity to develop increasingly refined skills to sustain enjoyment is what lies behind the evolution of culture.
by Angie Kim · read January 30, 2020
This novel was so engrossing, to the point where I wanted my bus ride to last longer so I could spend more time reading it. I really liked the shifts between each character's perspective – not only did it add to the unraveling of the plot but I was able to get a strong sense of their personalities and values. As always, the themes were what made it for me – I loved the focus on parenting, loyalty, responsibility/blame, and authenticity.
by Reza Aslan · read January 29, 2020
Fascinating, engrossing introduction to Islam. I learned so much about Islamic history, tradition, theology, and politics from this book - Aslan did an excellent job of clearly communicating key ideas, weaving a narrative that was simple to follow, and providing context to commonly misunderstood concepts. One of the most readable works of non-fiction I've read in a very long time.
by Yōko Ogawa · read January 14, 2020
This was a simple and sweet book. I really enjoyed the mathematical concepts woven into the story and I think the novel really helped me to see the beauty and wonder of them, not just as ideas but as an essential part of someone's life.
by Candice Carty-Williams · read January 11, 2020
This one just wasn't for me, but I have a hard time identifying why. I liked the novel's characters and the themes but it didn't feel cohesive enough and my sense of humor doesn't quite mesh with the British style either.
by Safiya Umoja Noble · read January 9, 2020
I liked the unique, interdisciplinary perspective of this book, which analyzes technology and information studies from a sociological perspective with some media and communications insight as well. It was academic and much more focused on library and information science than it was on computer science, which was unexpected but still illuminating. I think it made some excellent points about classification systems and the dangers of privatized control over what should be public information.
by Kazuo Ishiguro · read January 5, 2020
This was an intriguing novel – the mystery of the characters' circumstances kept me engaged, but I also really liked reading about the normal dynamics between the three characters. An enjoyable and thought provoking read!
by Yevgeny Zamyatin · read January 2, 2020
This book is such an experience to read. As the precursor to most dystopian fiction its setting and themes are recognizable, but they somehow crackle with their own energy. I loved that the style is fragmented but manages to turn natural language into something precise that must be studied carefully - like math! I'm not bright enough to understand this novel fully but rereading it was a treat.
by Miriam Toews · read December 15, 2019
I had a hard time putting this novel down. What I liked most was the heart of the story – seeing the love that Yoli and Elf have for each other, empathizing with the family's pain and each of the characters' difficult situations, and amidst the serious tone smiling or laughing at the funny moments and clever lines throughout the book. Really enjoyed it and will definitely come back to it at some point.
by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie · read December 15, 2019
Like most long books, this novel had a lot going on and some parts were definitely more interesting than others; that said, overall I found it engaging and I enjoyed following the stories of Ifemelu and Obinze. I especially enjoyed reading about the beginning of their relationship in high school, Ifemelu's observations about the US and initial experiences as an immigrant, and the relationship between her and Blaine. I didn't find Obinze to be quite as compelling of a character, but I liked seeing the contrast between his experience in the UK and hers in the US, and of course I was rooting for them to reunite in Nigeria by the end of the book.
by Jhumpa Lahiri · read December 10, 2019
I liked this book more than The Lowland, but again I felt like the writing was too descriptive for my tastes and at times I wished the story dipped further into defining moments and spent less time on broad strokes. Nonetheless, I thought that Ashima and Gogol were great characters, and I especially liked following Gogol's story from childhood through to adulthood. I'm a big fan of two of the dominant themes in the story, the significance of names and the ties that connect family members to each other, so those parts of the book were especially interesting to me.
by Helle Helle · read November 23, 2019
I usually really like minimalist books, but I wasn't a huge fan of this one (I'm willing to attribute it to timing and maybe try again later, it's pretty short haha). I did admire the matter of fact quality of the writing and the complete lack of indication towards significance - there were times where I thought the author would break and give me something, but it never came.
The best part of the book: a retelling of a trip that Dorte, the protagonist's aunt, took with her boyfriend – she is full of excitement on the train, he tells her that she should settle down, and 'it was as if all the life drained away from her.' That sentence sucker punched me when I read it. This is why I love to read, those fleeting glimpses of seeing my own reflection in someone else's.
The best part of the book: a retelling of a trip that Dorte, the protagonist's aunt, took with her boyfriend – she is full of excitement on the train, he tells her that she should settle down, and 'it was as if all the life drained away from her.' That sentence sucker punched me when I read it. This is why I love to read, those fleeting glimpses of seeing my own reflection in someone else's.
by Jhumpa Lahiri · read November 15, 2019
Overall, I liked this novel, but it's a challenging one for me to review. Lahiri's style in the book didn't quite click with me and at times felt too descriptive, but there were certainly passages that caught my attention. Parts of the story really interested me (Udayan's political involvement, the friendship between Subhash and Bela as she was growing up, Gauri's grief and conflicted feelings about motherhood), but those parts were surrounded by other threads that were missing something. I think Lahiri did an excellent job portraying the loneliness and isolation of the characters.
But the future was visible, unspooling incrementally. She wanted to shut her eyes to it. She wished the days and months ahead of her would end. But the rest of her life continued to present itself, time ceaselessly proliferating. She was made to anticipate it against her will.
But the future was visible, unspooling incrementally. She wanted to shut her eyes to it. She wished the days and months ahead of her would end. But the rest of her life continued to present itself, time ceaselessly proliferating. She was made to anticipate it against her will.
by Zadie Smith · read November 13, 2019
Upon reflection, I think Smith accomplished a lot in this novel while still making it feel easy to read. It felt ambitious in scope and theme, but not like it was trying to persuade the reader of a point, which I prefer in a novel. There was a fantastic array of characters from the three families with strange, varied connections cropping up between so many of them, but I never had to focus to remember who was who, and every character felt distinct and real. Definitely impressed with this one!
Involved is neither good nor bad. It it just a consequence of living, a consequence of occupation and immigration, of empires and expansion, of living in each other's pockets.... one becomes involved and it is a long trek back to being uninvolved.
Involved is neither good nor bad. It it just a consequence of living, a consequence of occupation and immigration, of empires and expansion, of living in each other's pockets.... one becomes involved and it is a long trek back to being uninvolved.
by Beth O'Leary · read November 9, 2019
Cute, light romance with an entertaining premise (they share a flat at alternating times of the day and communicate with post it notes) and sufficient subplots to carry the story along while leaving room for the main characters to fall in love. The personalities of the main characters were fun and refreshing, and I think the storyline of Tiffy and her manipulative ex Justin made the story more interesting too.
by Jana Casale · read November 9, 2019
I really liked the interior, judgmental tone of this novel - I found Leda easy to like precisely because she seemed equal parts interested in and detached from the other characters (with the exception of her daughter). I particularly liked her own insights and idiosyncrasies when it came to what it's like to be a woman. There were certain moments in the book – her obsession with linearity, John's lack of character and relevance, her breakdown while shopping for a bathing suit, her vicious assessments of Elle's life – that really rang true to me, although they certainly didn't give an overwhelmingly positive impression of womanhood. I also really liked the ending, when it becomes totally obvious that the standards and expectations we set for ourselves our whole lives about who we 'should' be have been meaningless and self imposed all along.
A few days later Leda called to check up on the pigeon's progress.
'I'm so sorry,' the lady on the phone said. 'It didn't make it.'
'Oh, that's too bad.' Leda tried to think of something consoling to say but nothing really worked. She finally settled on: 'At least she died peacefully.'
'Yes,' the lady said. 'Hopefully next time the outcome will be better.'
Next time? Leda thought.
A few days later Leda called to check up on the pigeon's progress.
'I'm so sorry,' the lady on the phone said. 'It didn't make it.'
'Oh, that's too bad.' Leda tried to think of something consoling to say but nothing really worked. She finally settled on: 'At least she died peacefully.'
'Yes,' the lady said. 'Hopefully next time the outcome will be better.'
Next time? Leda thought.
by Tatiana de Rosnay · read November 6, 2019
I was pretty disappointed with this one. I think that the idea behind the novel, to shed light on a horrible part of French history, is really important, and that telling it from the perspective of a young girl is particularly heartbreaking. Unfortunately, it was poorly executed – the style wasn't great, the balance between historical and modern was skewed, and what annoyed me the most: the author frequently informed the reader about how the characters were feeling but rarely provided opportunities for them to reach that conclusion themselves.
by Yann Martel · read October 26, 2019
An enjoyable reread of a novel I loved when I read it the first time. The writing felt familiar and engaging throughout the entire story and I really liked Pi as a narrator. I especially liked reading about Pi's experiences with faith and his father's zoo at the beginning of the book.
You may be astonished that in such a short period of time I could go from weeping over the muffled killing of a flying fish to gleefully bludgeoning to death a dorado. I could explain it by arguing that profiting from a pitiful flying fish's navigational mistake made me shy and sorrowful, while the excitement of actively capturing a great dorado made me sanguinary and self-assured. But in point of fact the explanation lies elsewhere. It is simple and brutal: a person can get used to anything, even to killing.
You may be astonished that in such a short period of time I could go from weeping over the muffled killing of a flying fish to gleefully bludgeoning to death a dorado. I could explain it by arguing that profiting from a pitiful flying fish's navigational mistake made me shy and sorrowful, while the excitement of actively capturing a great dorado made me sanguinary and self-assured. But in point of fact the explanation lies elsewhere. It is simple and brutal: a person can get used to anything, even to killing.
by Weike Wang · read October 25, 2019
I loved this novel – it was written in a similar detail-conscious, charming style as The Idiot and Naïve. Super and really made me feel like I was looking into the narrator's brain. I cared a lot about her, and I learned a lot from her reflections on her parents, science, and love while being invested in the threads about her best friend, tutoring, and her dog. The novel definitely reminded me that there's no simple 'one size fits all' approach to understanding and relating to our parents, and reading about the narrator's relationship with Eric gave me a taste of the patience and grace required for good relationships. An excellent read – thanks again Lianne for the rec!
I wonder if I should call him again, but it never goes beyond that. I try not to say his name or think it, but it's such a common name. I go into a CVS and see the air freshener brand Air Wick and leave without buying anything.
I wonder if I should call him again, but it never goes beyond that. I try not to say his name or think it, but it's such a common name. I go into a CVS and see the air freshener brand Air Wick and leave without buying anything.
by Colleen Hoover · read October 22, 2019
This one is a little challenging for me to review. The tone, setup, and dialogue are pretty standard for romantic fiction, but it's insightful about a heavy topic (domestic abuse) in a way that makes it stand out from other novels of this genre. Nothing outstanding in terms of style or characterizations, but I liked it; in particular, there was a conversation that takes place between Lily and Ryle in the hospital at the end that really struck me and that made me happy that I read it.
by Lindsey Drager · read October 13, 2019
Stunning and creative, this book is so different from most other books I've read, both in premise and in style. It's comprised of vignettes about pairs of siblings from several of the years that Halley's Comet has visited Earth, spanning centuries and written in beautiful prose. I loved the focus on storytelling and on the relationship between siblings, and I especially liked when seemingly disconnected stories crossed paths or merged as one. My all time favourite part of the book was the chapter 'Hansel's Lament' - it reads like a cold starry night in autumn feels. Would definitely recommend!
She kissed his wet cheeks and pulled his face away from hers and told him what I am trying to tell you here–that there are two kinds of labyrinths: those you are born into and must escape, and those you choose to enter in search of what lies inside.
She kissed his wet cheeks and pulled his face away from hers and told him what I am trying to tell you here–that there are two kinds of labyrinths: those you are born into and must escape, and those you choose to enter in search of what lies inside.
by Michael Pollan · read October 9, 2019
Short, helpful review of rules of thumb when it comes to eating good real food. The simplicity and repetition makes the content easy to remember and understand - I particularly liked the advice to shop the edges of the grocery store, buy snacks from the farmer's market, eat until you're 80% full, and make your own treats!
by Richard Russo · read October 6, 2019
This was an unusual and entertaining book, with some absurd and hilarious moments. The premise is that of a divided English department in Pennsylvania, but it seemed to me more of an exploration through the 50 year old main character Hank about how to exist in relation to others. I think the well-developed cast of characters really makes reading this book worthwhile.
As I drift back into sleep, I can't help thinking that it's a wonderful thing to be right about the world. To weigh the evidence, always incomplete, and correctly intuit the whole, to see the world in a grain of sand, to recognize its beauty, its simplicity, its truth.
As I drift back into sleep, I can't help thinking that it's a wonderful thing to be right about the world. To weigh the evidence, always incomplete, and correctly intuit the whole, to see the world in a grain of sand, to recognize its beauty, its simplicity, its truth.
by John Williams · read October 2, 2019
A peaceful, slow novel with certain well-crafted passages dotted throughout it. It was enjoyable to read a book about a normal person living a rather uneventful life; I particularly liked reading about Stoner's relationship with his daughter.
In his forty-third year William Stoner learned what others, much younger, had learned before him: that the person one loves at first is not the person one loves at last, and that love is not an end but a process through which one person attempts to know another.
In his forty-third year William Stoner learned what others, much younger, had learned before him: that the person one loves at first is not the person one loves at last, and that love is not an end but a process through which one person attempts to know another.
by Donald A. Norman · read September 29, 2019
This book was a collection of hit and miss for me, but in my opinion the hits compensate for the misses. It provides a useful framework for thinking about objects and for design principles, but the book itself seemed poorly structured and the connections between ideas were often obscured. I think the beginning of the book, concerned with affordances and signifiers, and some of the concepts for robust and intuitive design were the most insightful parts of the book. Worth a read!
by Robert M. Pirsig · read September 28, 2019
Usually I don't finish books that I really dislike, but this was an exception so I get to explain why I really didn't like it. I will say that there were small parts of the book that were of interest to me – the section where Phaedrus is comparing Greek concepts of Truth and the Good was neat and thinking about the pursuit of excellence (he would call it 'quality') when it comes to work like motorcycle maintenance seemed valuable – but they were buried under nonsense.
The most annoying things about this book, in no particular order: The narrator clearly thinks he's brilliant. The road trip is some kind of metaphor I didn't even try to understand. (Actually, there wasn't even a need to try to make this a novel, it should have just been nonfiction.) There are blatant spelling mistakes that indicates that no one edited it. The focus of the book jumps everywhere. There is a split personality subplot that adds no value and way too much distraction. The philosophical concepts are so poorly explained. The narrator is forced to constantly reference what he's said and explain what he's going to say due to the complete lack of structure. It's littered with short 'deep' sentences that come across as way too heavy handed and extremely out of place.
Okay, I could go on, but I'm going to stop here. Long story short, I gleaned something useful from this book, and maybe if I read it when I was 16 it would have been insightful, but it was a waste of time and its high reviews on Goodreads have me seriously questioning the judgement of some other people out there. Sorry Andrew, I tried for you.
This passage is an example of why I did not enjoy reading this book: if it had anything valuable at all to say, it was completely lost in a) its incomprehensibility and b) its perseverance in trying to sound as smart as possible even though it's NOT THAT DEEP.
At first the truths Phaedrus began to pursue were lateral truths; no longer the frontal truths of science, those toward which the discipline pointed, but the kind of truth you see laterally, out of the corner of your eye. In a laboratory setting, when your whole procedure goes haywire, when everything goes wrong or is indeterminate or is so screwed up by unexpected results you can't make head or tail out of anything, you start looking laterally. That's a word he later used to describe a growth of knowledge that doesn't move forward like an arrow in flight, but expands sideways, like an arrow enlarging in flight, or like the archer, discovering that although he has hit the bull's eye and won the prize, his head is on a pillow and the sun is coming in the window. Lateral knowledge is knowledge that's from a wholly unexpected direction, from a direction that's not even understood as a direction until the knowledge forces itself upon one. Lateral truths point to the falseness of axioms and postulates underlying one's existing system of getting at truth. To all appearances he was just drifting. In actuality he was just drifting. Drifting is what one does when looking at lateral truths.
I KNOW WHAT LATERAL MEANS. Okay, I'm actually done now.
The most annoying things about this book, in no particular order: The narrator clearly thinks he's brilliant. The road trip is some kind of metaphor I didn't even try to understand. (Actually, there wasn't even a need to try to make this a novel, it should have just been nonfiction.) There are blatant spelling mistakes that indicates that no one edited it. The focus of the book jumps everywhere. There is a split personality subplot that adds no value and way too much distraction. The philosophical concepts are so poorly explained. The narrator is forced to constantly reference what he's said and explain what he's going to say due to the complete lack of structure. It's littered with short 'deep' sentences that come across as way too heavy handed and extremely out of place.
Okay, I could go on, but I'm going to stop here. Long story short, I gleaned something useful from this book, and maybe if I read it when I was 16 it would have been insightful, but it was a waste of time and its high reviews on Goodreads have me seriously questioning the judgement of some other people out there. Sorry Andrew, I tried for you.
This passage is an example of why I did not enjoy reading this book: if it had anything valuable at all to say, it was completely lost in a) its incomprehensibility and b) its perseverance in trying to sound as smart as possible even though it's NOT THAT DEEP.
At first the truths Phaedrus began to pursue were lateral truths; no longer the frontal truths of science, those toward which the discipline pointed, but the kind of truth you see laterally, out of the corner of your eye. In a laboratory setting, when your whole procedure goes haywire, when everything goes wrong or is indeterminate or is so screwed up by unexpected results you can't make head or tail out of anything, you start looking laterally. That's a word he later used to describe a growth of knowledge that doesn't move forward like an arrow in flight, but expands sideways, like an arrow enlarging in flight, or like the archer, discovering that although he has hit the bull's eye and won the prize, his head is on a pillow and the sun is coming in the window. Lateral knowledge is knowledge that's from a wholly unexpected direction, from a direction that's not even understood as a direction until the knowledge forces itself upon one. Lateral truths point to the falseness of axioms and postulates underlying one's existing system of getting at truth. To all appearances he was just drifting. In actuality he was just drifting. Drifting is what one does when looking at lateral truths.
I KNOW WHAT LATERAL MEANS. Okay, I'm actually done now.
by J.D. Salinger · read September 18, 2019
Short and at times incredibly funny. I mostly disregarded the ideas discussed in the book in favour of the relationships in the novel, which were of much greater interest. My favourite part was when Zooey and his mother are having a conversation in the bathroom, and I think the few perfectly placed lines and moments in the stories made them worth reading. (Like the one I'm attaching to this review – pure gold.)
Zooey rinsed his razor. 'Who in hell is Lane?' he asked. Unmistakably, it was the question of a still very young man who, now and then, is not inclined to admit that he knows the first names of certain people.
Zooey rinsed his razor. 'Who in hell is Lane?' he asked. Unmistakably, it was the question of a still very young man who, now and then, is not inclined to admit that he knows the first names of certain people.
by Chad Harbach · read September 14, 2019
This book falls into the category of books that I really like even though it's hard to explain why. It had the sharp quality of well-written novels and various literary references I caught (and certainly more that I didn't), but it also had a lot of heart to it. My favourite elements were the friendship between Henry and Schwartz and the reflections on philosophy and sport as an art; my least favourite was the relationship between Owen and Affenlight, which felt extremely unbalanced. It was also on occasion extremely funny, which is always a good trait in a novel.
He knew it sounded crazy when you put it like that. To want to be perfect. To want everything to be perfect. But now it felt like that was all he'd ever craved since he'd been born. Maybe it wasn't even baseball that he loved but only this idea of perfection, a perfectly simple life in which every move had meaning, and baseball was just the medium through which he could make that happen.
He knew it sounded crazy when you put it like that. To want to be perfect. To want everything to be perfect. But now it felt like that was all he'd ever craved since he'd been born. Maybe it wasn't even baseball that he loved but only this idea of perfection, a perfectly simple life in which every move had meaning, and baseball was just the medium through which he could make that happen.
by Claire Lombardo · read September 11, 2019
I really liked this novel - I quickly became invested in all of the characters' lives and watching the entire family drama unfold. I think Jonah's character was essential for providing an opening point into the closed family unit that the reader could identify with; his plotline was definitely the one I cared about the most. Another book that makes me kind of terrified to have a family.
by Catherine Hernandez · read September 8, 2019
This book had a great array of characters and a good setup–they are all somehow connected to a literacy centre in Scarborough–but I thought that the number of different narrators made the story a bit difficult to follow. I also had a very similar experience with this book as I did to Chariandy's Brother, where it felt like the stories weren't fully developed and that there was more to be said and explored.
by Michele Filgate · read September 8, 2019
This collection just didn't really click with me. I appreciated the premise, expanding our conceptions of what mothers are like or 'should be', but at the same time the repeated emotional excavation didn't ring true.
by Donna Zuckerberg · read September 7, 2019
This book examines the Red Pill communities online (with a helpful chapter distinguishing differences in the numerous factions of antifeminists) and their use of classics to justify their opinions. The three major sections of the book deal with different issues – broadly: rationality and emotions, the objectification of women, and sexual assault – which are each connected to different classic texts by Red Pill members. Definitely worth a read to understand what arguments and tactics these communities make and to contemplate how we confront classic texts given our modern culture. A word of note: it was very well researched and cited, so there is a lot of despicable and disturbing rhetoric from Red Pill writers included in the book – it can get tough to read at some points.
by Miguel Ruiz · read September 6, 2019
Short and easy to get through, with what I think are some excellent messages about approaching life and handling interactions with others. There wasn't a lot that was new, but it was framed in a different way and I benefited from reading it.
by Val Emmich · read September 5, 2019
I saw the musical in Toronto in May and I really enjoyed it – I cared about the characters, liked the music, and I thought it was very relevant to current issues that teenagers face. Whenever I see a movie or show I really enjoy, my instinct is to find the book and see what new facets of the story it introduces - this book, as I found out after reading it, was based off of the musical, so it doesn't really have anything new in it other than more depth for Connor (which was good). Since I was hoping for a lot more, I was pretty disappointed with the book.
by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie · read August 31, 2019
This novel had a distinctive feeling to it - by the second section, I felt thoroughly convinced that the story was completely real and that I was reading about people I actually knew. Adichie artfully shaped the writing to feel natural and transparent, like the language and descriptions made everything seem clear and as if the author's hand never had to move anything. Both the story and the characters were compelling and really drew me in, plus I learned a lot about Nigerian history.
by Lin Yutang · read August 31, 2019
Somewhat unexpectedly hilarious and thought-provoking. The book begins with a disclaimer that it's not really a book on philosophy, just a collection of the author's thoughts, and it is very true to that disclaimer. Certain parts I completely disregarded because they were outdated or just not relevant to me, but there was a lot of content that I found fascinating and I loved the emphasis on simplicity and not overcomplicating things.
One of my favourite passages in the book:
But the essential fact remains that human life has got too complicated and the matter of merely feeding ourselves, directly or indirectly, is occupying well over ninety per cent of our human activities. Civilization is largely a matter of seeking food, while progress is that development which makes food more and more difficult to get. If it had not been made so difficult for man to obtain his food, there would be absolutely no reason why humanity should work so hard. The danger is that we get over-civilized and that we come to a point, as indeed we have already done, when the work of getting food is so strenuous that we lose our appetite for food in the process of getting it.
One of my favourite passages in the book:
But the essential fact remains that human life has got too complicated and the matter of merely feeding ourselves, directly or indirectly, is occupying well over ninety per cent of our human activities. Civilization is largely a matter of seeking food, while progress is that development which makes food more and more difficult to get. If it had not been made so difficult for man to obtain his food, there would be absolutely no reason why humanity should work so hard. The danger is that we get over-civilized and that we come to a point, as indeed we have already done, when the work of getting food is so strenuous that we lose our appetite for food in the process of getting it.
by Daniel Kahneman · read August 31, 2019
Such an interesting, useful book! It has a fairly wide scope of content, some I found more intriguing than others, but altogether incredibly relevant to understanding cognitive biases and heuristics, plus some helpful sections on decision making and probability as well. This is a book I'd recommend to so many people because I genuinely think it has already significantly improved my ability to think clearly.
Some of my favourite concepts/sections were, in no particular order: the psychological impact that losses have, how what I perceived as 'jinx' is just regression to the mean, the importance of thinking deeply about what seem like surface level questions, and the philosophical implications of the difference between the experiencing and the remembering selves.
Some of my favourite concepts/sections were, in no particular order: the psychological impact that losses have, how what I perceived as 'jinx' is just regression to the mean, the importance of thinking deeply about what seem like surface level questions, and the philosophical implications of the difference between the experiencing and the remembering selves.
by Jane H. Hill · read August 29, 2019
An insightful look at racism from a critical linguistic perspective, which I had never really encountered before. I think the concepts introduced near the beginning of the book, like the folk theory of racism and personalist/referentialist ideologies with respect to language, were extremely helpful to learn and that Hill did a great job of connecting the content of the following chapters back to those foundational concepts. The information covered is definitely relevant to current discussions about racist language, political correctness, and linguistic appropriation.
by Jonathan Safran Foer · read August 20, 2019
I read this book a while ago and decided to reread it when a friend mentioned it to me and I remembered that I had liked it. It hit me much harder than I thought it would, the stories of both Oskar and his grandfather; the intensity of the stories is intentionally over the top at points, but it still slams into you (especially the ending, geez). I also liked the emphasis on (mis)communication and the novel had some really lovely lines about that too.
by Haruki Murakami · read August 7, 2019
An ambitious, stunning, confusing, unbelievable novel. I felt invested in Toru and his search to figure out what was going on - in his world, with his wife, even with his own body and mind. The array of other characters and their stories was equally interesting, and I particularly liked the vignette of the boy looking out the window and the account in the Siberian labor camp. This is a book that I feel I'd have to read many times to understand more; from my first encounter, though, the references to flow and fate definitely intrigued me. I also liked the prevalence of nonevents and didn't really mind the loose threads, which I think are prerequisites to deeply enjoying the novel.
At the same time, however, he would often come home from work and, seeing his wife and daughter there, think to himself, These people are, finally, separate human beings, with whom I have no connection. They were something other, something of which he had no true knowledge, something that existed in a place far away from the doctor himself. And whenever he felt this way, the thought would cross his mind that he himself had chosen neither of these people on his own–which did not prevent him from loving them unconditionally, without the slightest reservation. This was, for the doctor, a great paradox, an insoluble contradiction, a gigantic trap that had been set for him in his life.
At the same time, however, he would often come home from work and, seeing his wife and daughter there, think to himself, These people are, finally, separate human beings, with whom I have no connection. They were something other, something of which he had no true knowledge, something that existed in a place far away from the doctor himself. And whenever he felt this way, the thought would cross his mind that he himself had chosen neither of these people on his own–which did not prevent him from loving them unconditionally, without the slightest reservation. This was, for the doctor, a great paradox, an insoluble contradiction, a gigantic trap that had been set for him in his life.
by Colm Tóibín · read July 16, 2019
A rare circumstance where I preferred the movie to the book; the serene, uneventful quality of the story works better on film. That said, having already watched the movie made the book a more pleasant read, especially regarding Tony. I liked seeing into Eilis's head with respect to her homesickness, but there was less reflection on her part than I thought there would be.
The arrangements being made, all the bustle and talk, would be better if they were for someone else, she thought, someone like her, someone the same age and size, who maybe even looked the same as she did, as long as she, the person who was thinking now, could wake in this bed every morning and move as the day went on in these familiar streets and come home to the kitchen, to her mother and Rose.
The arrangements being made, all the bustle and talk, would be better if they were for someone else, she thought, someone like her, someone the same age and size, who maybe even looked the same as she did, as long as she, the person who was thinking now, could wake in this bed every morning and move as the day went on in these familiar streets and come home to the kitchen, to her mother and Rose.
by Harry Mulisch · read July 15, 2019
I liked the specificity and reflection in this novel – that it was centred around one person and one event, and that eventually everything turned back towards the centre. The plot/mystery itself wasn't especially compelling to me; rather, I was invested in Anton and wanted to see him make sense of what had happened to him.
This moment... detached itself from all that had come before and all that would follow. It became part of him and began its journey through the rest of his life, until finally it would explode like a soap bubble, after which it might as well never have happened.
This moment... detached itself from all that had come before and all that would follow. It became part of him and began its journey through the rest of his life, until finally it would explode like a soap bubble, after which it might as well never have happened.
by Lisa See · read July 14, 2019
This was a really engaging novel that follows the main character, Li-yan, and her family through her childhood in a remote Chinese tea village into adulthood. I particularly liked learning about Akha culture and seeing the tensions between tradition and modernity arise over the span of the story, and I liked the 'no coincidence, no story' thread that ran through it as well. I liked the characters more than the style, which seemed fairly direct to me.
by Curtis Sittenfeld · read July 14, 2019
All I can remember about this book is that I read it in a library in Brussels… but I liked it enough to finish it, so 3 stars?
by Madeline Miller · read July 11, 2019
Another beautiful read - I didn't enjoy it quite as much as 'Circe', but it was still great. I loved the way that the story played with the readers' foreknowledge of the Trojan War while managing to surprise. At times the style made the tale feel almost glossy, which created an interesting contrast with the content.
He knew, but it was not enough. The sorrow was so large it threatened to tear through my skin. When he died, all things swift and beautiful and bright would be buried with him. I opened my mouth, but it was too late.
He knew, but it was not enough. The sorrow was so large it threatened to tear through my skin. When he died, all things swift and beautiful and bright would be buried with him. I opened my mouth, but it was too late.
by Thea Lim · read July 8, 2019
This book felt very different from most books that I've read, and I have a strong feeling that it would make a great movie. Too descriptive for my taste and I was vindicated but disappointed in the ending. Well developed tone throughout the novel, which was a strong point.
Marta and me always meant to get up and watch the sunrise. But there was always something else to do. And the sunrise is right here, you think. There'll always be another one.
Marta and me always meant to get up and watch the sunrise. But there was always something else to do. And the sunrise is right here, you think. There'll always be another one.
by Alexander Chee · read July 2, 2019
Took me a bit of time to warm up to this one but I was definitely pulled in. I think my favourite essay was the one about keeping a rose garden, and the collection as a whole reignited my interest in writing.
If I do not answer the question 'What is the novel about?' or 'How is the novel going?', it is because my sense of a novel changes in the same way my knowledge of someone changes as I get to know them. You are looking for an answer you can rely on later, and so am I. But my answer will eventually be the entire book, and I do not want to give any of it away.
If I do not answer the question 'What is the novel about?' or 'How is the novel going?', it is because my sense of a novel changes in the same way my knowledge of someone changes as I get to know them. You are looking for an answer you can rely on later, and so am I. But my answer will eventually be the entire book, and I do not want to give any of it away.
by Primo Levi · read June 26, 2019
Levi's account seems to describe and reflect on the horror he endured without trying to explain it. It was a sobering read and definitely worth it; he writes powerfully and directly.
'Then for the first time we became aware that our language lacks words to express this offence, the demolition of a man. In a moment, with almost prophetic intuition, the reality was revealed to us: we had reached the bottom. It is not possible to sink lower than this; no human condition is more miserable than this, nor could it conceivably be so.'
'Then for the first time we became aware that our language lacks words to express this offence, the demolition of a man. In a moment, with almost prophetic intuition, the reality was revealed to us: we had reached the bottom. It is not possible to sink lower than this; no human condition is more miserable than this, nor could it conceivably be so.'
by Knut Hamsun · read June 25, 2019
The preface duly convinced me that this book is cleverly written and meaningful, but I just didn't really connect with the storyline of Johannes and Victoria. I liked the beginning more, with the descriptions and before their relationship seemed pointless.
by Hans Fallada · read June 24, 2019
Compelling characters that span a wide range of personalities and roles during the war in Berlin. I felt like this novel strongly communicated the sense of suspicion and surveillance that permeated the characters' communities. It also definitely showed the senselessness of the concepts of law and justice at the time.
'He might be right: whether their act was big or small, no one could risk more than his life. Each according to his strength and abilities, but the main thing was, you fought back.'
'He might be right: whether their act was big or small, no one could risk more than his life. Each according to his strength and abilities, but the main thing was, you fought back.'
by Alan W. Watts · read June 19, 2019
Second read: Returning to this book felt like a completely necessary recalibration for my mind. I still have difficulties with his conception of 'I', but I absolutely love chapters 4 to 6, and the book in general is such an excellent diagnosis of certain issues with modernity and epistemology.
This is why modern civilization is in almost every respect a vicious circle. It is insatiably hungry because its way of life condemns it to perpetual frustration. As we have seen, the root of this frustration is that we live for the future, and the future is an abstraction, a rational inference from experience, which exists only for the brain. The 'primary consciousness,' the basic mind which knows reality rather than ideas about it, does not know the future. It lives completely in the present, and perceives nothing more than what is at this moment.
First read: Many of the ideas in this book really challenged me, especially as a person who loves definitions and structure. It forced me to reconsider my perspective on language, memory, and time, and I was especially interested in his interpretation of many Scriptural passages since it was often different if not opposite to what I've previously learned. I'll admit that I was frustrated by the paradox of consciously living in the moment, but that's something I can work on :)
Free from clutching at themselves the hands can handle; free from looking after themselves the eyes can see; free from trying to understand itself thought can think. In such feeling, seeing, and thinking life requires no future to complete itself nor explanation to justify itself.
This is why modern civilization is in almost every respect a vicious circle. It is insatiably hungry because its way of life condemns it to perpetual frustration. As we have seen, the root of this frustration is that we live for the future, and the future is an abstraction, a rational inference from experience, which exists only for the brain. The 'primary consciousness,' the basic mind which knows reality rather than ideas about it, does not know the future. It lives completely in the present, and perceives nothing more than what is at this moment.
First read: Many of the ideas in this book really challenged me, especially as a person who loves definitions and structure. It forced me to reconsider my perspective on language, memory, and time, and I was especially interested in his interpretation of many Scriptural passages since it was often different if not opposite to what I've previously learned. I'll admit that I was frustrated by the paradox of consciously living in the moment, but that's something I can work on :)
Free from clutching at themselves the hands can handle; free from looking after themselves the eyes can see; free from trying to understand itself thought can think. In such feeling, seeing, and thinking life requires no future to complete itself nor explanation to justify itself.
by Erlend Loe · read June 14, 2019
I love books where nothing really happens and this novel did not disappoint. I loved the lists, the introspection, the narrator's friendship with the kindergarten student, and the fact that there were no catastrophes or mishaps during the story. It also reminded me strongly of a close friend of mine.
I fill my mouth with water and swallow a little at a time. Water is good. If I had to choose between a lot of things, I'd quite definitely choose water.
I fill my mouth with water and swallow a little at a time. Water is good. If I had to choose between a lot of things, I'd quite definitely choose water.
by Négar Djavadi · read June 12, 2019
I really liked the way this novel investigated ideas of family and exile - I also learned quite a bit about Iranian history and culture which I enjoyed. I understand the motivation behind the stylistic choices but they still made it a little challenging for me to track the story, although once I got the hang of it I had a much easier time.
At eight years old, I couldn't possibly have imagined where Leïli's words would lead me one day. How could anyone believe, when your life stretches out in front of you as vast and endless as the world itself, that one simple word could sum up the whole thing?
I came out of that upstairs bedroom eventually, but I never really left it. Every room I have lived in was that room in Mazandaran. I realized some time ago, when the lines developing around my mouth made me look even more like Nour, that what we call the future is really just a variation of the past.
At eight years old, I couldn't possibly have imagined where Leïli's words would lead me one day. How could anyone believe, when your life stretches out in front of you as vast and endless as the world itself, that one simple word could sum up the whole thing?
I came out of that upstairs bedroom eventually, but I never really left it. Every room I have lived in was that room in Mazandaran. I realized some time ago, when the lines developing around my mouth made me look even more like Nour, that what we call the future is really just a variation of the past.
by J.R.R. Tolkien · read June 12, 2019
Really enjoyed this reread, it's been ages since I've read this novel. Pacing was good, way more mishaps than I remembered, and I liked Bilbo's internal struggle between his Baggins and his Took sides. 'Riddles In the Dark' remains a stellar chapter.
by Abby Geni · read June 4, 2019
A pretty standard suspenseful novel about a nature photographer on an extremely isolated island. I liked the information about the different animals, and occasionally the descriptions of the setting, but the interpersonal plots didn't really engage me. I think that the description for the book was inaccurate, which gave me false hopes that the story didn't live up to. I liked it enough but not a lot.
by Paulo Freire · read May 31, 2019
The book seemed very practical and grounded in the author's experiences, which makes it valuable for specific implementation but I think a little less engaging for me personally. Still worth the read, especially for the sections focusing on the dynamics of oppression and the qualities of truly liberatory politics.
True generosity consists precisely in fighting to destroy the causes which nourish false charity. False charity constrains the fearful and subdued, the 'rejects of life,' to extend their trembling hands. True generosity lies in striving so that these hands–whether of individuals or entire peoples–need be extended less and less in supplication, so that more and more they become human hands which work and, working, transform the world.
True generosity consists precisely in fighting to destroy the causes which nourish false charity. False charity constrains the fearful and subdued, the 'rejects of life,' to extend their trembling hands. True generosity lies in striving so that these hands–whether of individuals or entire peoples–need be extended less and less in supplication, so that more and more they become human hands which work and, working, transform the world.
by Curtis Sittenfeld · read May 30, 2019
First read: There were a host of things in this book that irritated me (some questionable decisions from the narrator, an unsatisfactory ending, etc), but certain things about that I really liked that pulled it up to 3 stars - the style, the detailed characterizations, the reflections in hindsight from the narrator, and certain sentences / paragraphs. In particular, I loved the chapter where Lee's parents visit her at school; to me, that chapter alone made the story worth reading.
Second read: Still enjoyed it but a little less the second time. Again I thought the dynamic of Lee with her family was well done. Definitely felt like shaking her vigorously a few times.
Second read: Still enjoyed it but a little less the second time. Again I thought the dynamic of Lee with her family was well done. Definitely felt like shaking her vigorously a few times.
by Anne Gisleson · read May 18, 2019
Really wanted to like this one but it just didn't click with me. The chapters didn't feel internally cohesive and there seemed to be a lot of idea repetition, but I did enjoy some of the meditations on existentialist ideas and I've come away with a few suggestions for my to read list!
by Celeste Ng · read May 14, 2019
I liked the story well enough - it was fairly straightforward, following three families and centered around two main events (adoption and arson). However, I disliked the style and characterizations - everything was phrased simply and the characters seemed flat. Can't speak to the arson, but I would recommend Lucky Boy for a story about motherhood/adoption rather than this one.
by Andy Hunt · read May 12, 2019
Super practical book about maintaining good software design practices and working effectively on software projects. It covers a lot of ground and ranges from fairly basic to more technical (in my opinion), but the tips were connected by a common 'pragmatic' approach which I liked. Will definitely try to implement what I've learned and I'm sure I'll return to this one.
by Diane Ravitch · read May 10, 2019
An interesting and well researched book about the American educational system, specifically the poorly conceived and implemented legislation over the past few decades. Due to the scope and depth of the author's case, it's way too long if you're casually interested (like myself), but I definitely learned a lot.
There were frequent references made to 'high-performing nations' when it came to education and I think a more detailed comparison to those or an analysis of their strategies would have been helpful, especially in the section about moving forward, but also... it would have made the book longer.... so I'm not sure about that :)
There were frequent references made to 'high-performing nations' when it came to education and I think a more detailed comparison to those or an analysis of their strategies would have been helpful, especially in the section about moving forward, but also... it would have made the book longer.... so I'm not sure about that :)
by Margaret Atwood · read May 9, 2019
I liked the style of these stories, particularly the way that seemingly unrelated details or occurrences were mentioned but their meaning and significance left to the reader. At times the collection seemed repetitive... probably better read liberally staggered. My faves were 'Hurricane Hazel', 'Loulou', 'Bluebeard's Egg', and 'Unearthing Suite'.
by David Chariandy · read May 9, 2019
Loved the attention to setting and detail in this novel, but I felt almost cramped by the tight style, like there wasn't enough space to get to know the characters or really understand what was happening in Michael's head.
by Richard Nelson Bolles · read May 9, 2019
Valuable information about the process of finding a career. I really liked the emphasis on determining your own strengths and desires as a starting point.
by Madeline Miller · read May 1, 2019
A stellar read - I essentially couldn't put it down. It was bursting with so many different stories, yet felt focused and cohesive. I loved the beautiful prose, especially the careful characterizations of the many characters, and in particular the relationship between Circe and Hermes really struck me. Definitely cool to see some of the content of The Odyssey told in a similar style to Cassandra, considering I read them both this year.
by Jennifer Brown · read April 30, 2019
Reread this novel on a whim and it's as good as I remembered it, with a deep attention to pain and grief. Brown has crafted the characters such that it's hard not to feel for all of them; I especially felt for Valerie's relationship with her parents.
by Jason F. Stanley · read April 29, 2019
This is a clear, well-written overview of the key elements of fascism that connect current political movements to historical ones. Accessible, well structured, and full of compelling arguments and relevant insights.
by Jen Sincero · read April 27, 2019
This was a birthday gift from a friend and I generally actually enjoy reading self help books, so I gave it a shot. There were some helpful ideas (like... believing in yourself...), and then a lot of irrelevant writing and/or advice I didn't find useful (like... manifest money so you can buy an Audi). Considering it only took me two hours to read it and I laughed a couple times, I feel like it was worth the motivating boost I got, but would not really recommend it in general.
by Gabriel García Márquez · read April 20, 2019
Was a little slow getting started but once I got the hang of it I enjoyed it a lot more. A distinctive style that made everything seem matter of fact and absolutely gave the impression that nothing ever really changed even though a lot of things happened.
by Naomi Klein · read March 19, 2019
I think this book made a strong case around the 'branding' quality of Trump, and it did a good job of connecting current American politics to a history of shock politics. The last few chapters felt a little repetitive, but I agree that creating a vision for an alternate system is essential.
by Jane Harper · read March 17, 2019
Tense, intriguing novel centered around the mysterious death of Nathan's younger brother Cameron. Loved the way the story gradually uncovered both Nathan's backstory and what happened to Cameron through the family's interactions following the discovery of his body. The attention to the environment really contributed to the themes of isolation/community and silence/speech throughout the novel. Was a bit slow at first but it picks up - this one is worth a read!
by Sigrid Nunez · read March 11, 2019
I really loved the contemplative, scattered style of this novel and the frequent references to writers and their works. The story felt like an honest portrayal of grief and coping; I don't want to give anything away, but to me the scene near the end of the novel where the narrator imagines how things could have gone differently was the saddest part of the book.
by Amir Levine · read March 8, 2019
I didn't know anything about attachment styles prior to reading this book so I found it to be a useful overview of the field with a lot of practical tips about healthy communication and behaviour.
by William Deresiewicz · read February 24, 2019
Subjectively, this book has super relevant content to me, and I found myself agreeing with many of Deresiewicz's assessments of the current educational system. The section on what college is really for was compelling, and I especially liked the critique of 'leadership' as merely climbing to the top rather than envisioning alternatives. I wish I had read it earlier in my university career, although I still derived value from it by reading it now.
Objectively, I think the book is only interesting if you fall in or near the target audience, and it didn't seem to have a strong guiding thesis, enough substantive research to back up its claims, or many suggestions on how to move forward.
Objectively, I think the book is only interesting if you fall in or near the target audience, and it didn't seem to have a strong guiding thesis, enough substantive research to back up its claims, or many suggestions on how to move forward.
by Joy Kogawa · read February 24, 2019
I think the topic of this book, Canada's horrific treatment of Japanese Canadians during WWII, is an important period of Canadian history to learn about, and in that respect I think this novel was worth reading. It had some beautiful passages, and I especially liked the focus on silence and speech throughout the book. However, the style of this novel made it difficult for me to get through it; it demands an attention to detail and time that I couldn't sustain.
by Steven Galloway · read February 20, 2019
I liked that this novel follows the perspectives of three different citizens of Sarajevo as they contend with the realities of their besieged city. I think that the thread connecting the perspectives – finding a way to live in what seems like an unlivable reality – is especially compelling. My favourite passage of the novel is Kenan's vision, as he listens to the cellist, of a day spent eating ice cream and taking the tram with his family; it is good to treasure life before it's taken away.
And to be a ghost while you're still alive is the worst thing he can imagine. Because, like it or not, sooner or later we all become ghosts, we are washed away from the ground until even the memory of us is gone. But there's a time when we are not, and you have to know the difference. Once you forget, then you are a ghost.
And to be a ghost while you're still alive is the worst thing he can imagine. Because, like it or not, sooner or later we all become ghosts, we are washed away from the ground until even the memory of us is gone. But there's a time when we are not, and you have to know the difference. Once you forget, then you are a ghost.
by Sarah Manguso · read February 19, 2019
I loved certain passages and ideas in this book, especially as someone deeply preoccupied with records and archives, but the writing felt too fragmented to understand and I would have loved to see the ideas developed further.
by Greer Hendricks · read February 18, 2019
An entertaining read – I liked Jess and I especially enjoyed the last quarter of the book when the pace picked up and there was more uncertainty about what was happening. Could have been shorter without sacrificing much, and at times the 'thriller' aspects were a little too overdone.
by Angie Thomas · read February 14, 2019
I would describe this as an excellent YA novel - it has interesting, compelling characters; moments of hope, grief, humour, and love; and a relevant plotline about police brutality. I found Starr's relationships with her friends from two different communities and her experience code-switching as she navigates those communities particularly insightful and interesting. I think I would have enjoyed it a bit more had I been a bit younger when I read it.
by Chloe Benjamin · read February 14, 2019
There were certain qualities of this book I enjoyed, especially the attention to setting and each of the family members' individual relationship to Judaism and their family history. I think my favourite section was the last one, told from Varya's perspective. That being said, I didn't really emotionally connect to the novel the way I thought I might, and it seemed to fall a bit short of what it could have been.
by Ellen Ullman · read February 12, 2019
A diverse range of thought-provoking and reflective essays on technology in relation to society, culture, and personal experiences. I loved the measured tone, the details, and the special moments of recognizing an interior thought expressed by someone else. Reading this made me both marvel at computer science and question its trajectory.
by Anita Diamant · read January 27, 2019
The story of several chapters in Genesis from the perspective of Jacob's only daughter, Dinah, this was a fascinating idea of what the female side of the story might have looked like. What sold this book for me were the complex relational portrayals of the first half, which were varied and insightful, and the tone of the second half, which was reflective and poignant.
by Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley · read January 20, 2019
I love the thematic richness of this novel (creation, determinism, ambition, morality, friendship, identity, etc) and it has been fascinating to study it in two separate literature classes with distinctly different approaches/focuses. At times it seemed a bit melodramatic, but for me it was overshadowed by deep empathy for both Victor and the Creature.
by Paulo Freire · read January 13, 2019
An invigorating, challenging, pithy look at education - a book I wish I read at the beginning of university rather than at the end. It took me a little while to figure out how to read it, but once I got the hang of it I learned so much. Would definitely recommend to anyone interested in the ethical and political dimensions of teaching and learning.
by Ichiro Kishimi · read January 13, 2019
A clear, engaging dialogue about Adler's philosophy and its applications to everyday life. I think the style suited the content and helped to structure the Philosopher's arguments better. I didn't agree with all of his points, but I think some were helpful and that considering his perspective and thinking about the questions the book raises was valuable either way.
by Yuval Noah Harari · read December 28, 2018
Interesting overview of history, and the division into the three 'revolutions' was helpful as a structure for the content. Obviously it's impossible to cover everything in a book – it focused on economics, politics, and science rather than culture and art. Useful for drawing overarching connections between eras in history.
by Mark Haddon · read December 28, 2018
I enjoyed this novel - even though the plot was a bit jumbled and the mystery element of the book seemed misleading, the narrator's voice was engaging and I liked all the asides and musings that didn't really contribute to the plot.
by Suzanne Collins · read December 28, 2018
Spotted it on my sister's bookshelf and decided to reread it - I have fond memories of when this novel exploded and everyone in my grade was reading it! It had way more hunting/looking for food and way less fighting than I remembered it, but I definitely enjoyed the reread. The descriptions of Panem were thorough without being tedious and Katniss is a well developed main character.
by Franz Kafka · read December 28, 2018
I was a bit disturbed by the premise, but Kafka effectively communicates Gregor's sadness and isolation - the emotions felt visceral and the descriptions vivid. I read it for my literature class so I'll hopefully understand it better after our discussions.
by Malcolm Gladwell · read December 27, 2018
The content of the book was interesting and the chapters were internally cohesive, but the overall arc of the book was difficult to fully discern; findings from the examples seemed to contradict each other at times. I liked the chapter on thin slicing facial expressions the most, and it was an easy read.
by Daphne du Maurier · read December 21, 2018
Not the style of book I usually read, but I really enjoyed this one - it had beautiful writing and I loved the psychological forces at play in the story. In particular, the prominence of setting in the novel was unique and well done. The only reason I gave it 3 stars instead of 4 is because although the inner musings of the main character are central to the themes and development of the novel, I found her so annoying during the middle chapters.
by William B. Irvine · read December 14, 2018
Helpful overview of Stoicism, drawing from fundamental texts and making clear modern connections. Well structured and easy to follow - I liked the summary at the end, and the author's transparency in writing about his own life as well.
by Haruki Murakami · read December 12, 2018
I liked the style and pacing of the novel - I thought it suited its themes well, balancing details and a dazed tone well. My favourite parts were when Toru released the firefly from the roof and Nagasawa's celebratory dinner.
by Anna Yen · read December 7, 2018
There were a lot of things I disliked about this book - I couldn't really sympathize with Sophia, it didn't seem to have a plot, there was too much writing about how great all her bosses were or how great she was, etc. I liked some parts with her family but that was about it. Not really worth the read.
by Miriam Toews · read November 15, 2018
The premise of this book - women talking about what they should do about the sexual attacks on them and their families - was thought-provoking and engaging. I found that because I'm a Christian certain elements of their discussions really resonated with me. I had to pay close attention to follow the style of the dialogue, and I thought that at times the narrator's backstory was distracting.
by Christa Wolf · read November 1, 2018
I loved the imaginative language of this novel and Cassandra's perspective on her own struggles and mistakes. So many thought-provoking sentences and passages - will definitely reread this one.
by Tina May Hall · read October 31, 2018
Lyrical and compelling - I especially liked the sonnet piece and the short story at the end told through vignettes.
by Richard Higgins · read October 26, 2018
Refreshing perspective on trees and forests - some great sentences and points to think about. I liked the accompanying images and organization of the book.
by Kristin Hannah · read October 23, 2018
I really enjoyed this novel - the characters were compelling and the plot had enough movement to carry the story without feeling rushed. It made me think about the things I take for granted. At its heart, a story about love and resilience.
by Leïla Slimani · read October 8, 2018
A little creepy and disconcerting, but mostly too winding and descriptive. I think it was intended to make me feel restless, but it bordered on 'bored' for me.
by Gayle Forman · read October 7, 2018
I hoped this would be a fun, light read, but I didn't like it. I did like elements of the middle section, when Allyson is adjusting poorly to college and trying to live up to her parents' expectations, but other than that she was an unsympathetic character, her day with Willem was just strange, and huge chunks of the ending were far too fortuitous.
by Tayari Jones · read October 1, 2018
I really liked the personality and tone in this novel, especially from Roy's perspective, and the focus on a small set of characters and relationships. Somehow the story felt solid and sure, even while throwing certainties into question; it was both fulfilling and unfulfilling because it seemed real.
by William Strunk Jr. · read September 27, 2018
Well organized and explained, funny, and immensely useful. I'm excited to use the advice from this book to improve my writing, especially to make it more powerful and concise.
by Homer · read September 25, 2018
Interesting story that raises still-relevant questions about free will, personal resilience, leadership, hospitality, and relationships. I enjoyed reading about the challenges Odysseus faced on his journey home the most. Some chapters / passages were difficult to get through and I didn't feel strong emotions about many of the characters.
by Uzma Jalaluddin · read September 15, 2018
A fun, enjoyable read! I've read a lot of spins on Pride and Prejudice and this was one that had enough similarities while still offering originality in its premise, which I liked. At some points the plot seemed inconsistent with the characterizations, but overall Khalid and Ayesha were well written and I was invested in their story.
by Henry Cloud · read September 7, 2018
Helpful information about identifying unsafe people, examining my own weaknesses, and the importance of healthy relationships, all with Biblical grounding. Occasionally the advice was too vague or the Biblical foundation seemed weak, but overall worth a read and had some relevant takeaways.
by Mari Andrew · read September 3, 2018
An encouraging, comforting read; the messages of her comics are hit and miss for me but it's worth it for the ones that hit. After my experience living in Sydney, the parts about moving to a new city especially resonated with me.
by Jenny Han · read August 25, 2018
Read after watching the movie - cute and simple. In my opinion, the best parts are about Lara Jean and her family rather than the romance.
by Paul Tough · read August 22, 2018
I thought this book was a really interesting look at education and learning from several lenses/perspectives. Not only was the content intriguing and relevant, but I really appreciated the style and organization of the book itself. A lot of nonfiction feels very heavy-handed in its takeaways or conclusions, as if trying to hand you one or two new facts that you can parrot at a dinner party; this book felt much more like a patient exploration of related ideas, like walking through a museum with a thoughtful history enthusiast rather than an overzealous tour guide.
by Patrisse Khan-Cullors · read August 20, 2018
Beautifully written – wrenching, honouring, and moving. It's a little misleading to say I loved/enjoyed the book, because its contents were heavy, but I'm very glad I read it.
by Paul Kalanithi · read August 18, 2018
For some reason this memoir didn't resonate with me the way I thought that it might. There were certain passages and ideas in the book that I was really interested in but weren't fully fleshed out, and a lot of the content was medical information I didn't understand that emotionally disconnected me from the book. That being said, it contains some thought-provoking connections on meaning, death, literature, medicine, vocation, and philosophy, so I still think it was a worthwhile read.
by Ta-Nehisi Coates · read August 16, 2018
I liked the style of this book – interweaving ideas and experiences in the form of a personal letter – and I learned a lot from it; the focus on bodies is a relevant connecting thread throughout the work.
by Jeannette Walls · read August 16, 2018
A really fascinating book – I read it in one day because I was so engrossed in the story of the Walls family, and it stirred up a lot of questions in my mind about resilience, love, abuse, poverty, and familial obligations.
by Jon Krakauer · read August 14, 2018
Another story that just wasn't for me, although I think that readers with interest in the wilderness or survival would like it. Personal impressions: too many geographical details that didn't interest me, a lot of 'telling' about McCandless' personality/character rather than showing, and some thought-provoking quotes/passages.
by Suki Kim · read August 12, 2018
The two qualities of this book that I liked: it was a unique perspective on male North Korean university students, and through it I learned more about certain aspects of North Korea and its history with South Korea/China/the US.
In contrast, there seemed to be a lot of features that I really didn't like. Certain elements of the author's interactions with the students seemed infantilizing and inconsistent. The author's distaste/willful misunderstanding of Christianity gets tedious and is never actually developed or explained. Also, she kept on making really forced/underdeveloped connections between North Koreans and Christians, which was just annoying. It felt like there was so much repetition in the story - details and anecdotes that would have been more interesting just blur together because she draws the same vague conclusions from everything. She also included far too much information about her own relationship (or lack thereof) while simultaneously including so few actual details that I wasn't compelled to care about that element of the book at all.
In short: I'm glad I read it for the content and new information, but as you can probably tell, the style, tone, and irrelevant content of the book really put me off it.
In contrast, there seemed to be a lot of features that I really didn't like. Certain elements of the author's interactions with the students seemed infantilizing and inconsistent. The author's distaste/willful misunderstanding of Christianity gets tedious and is never actually developed or explained. Also, she kept on making really forced/underdeveloped connections between North Koreans and Christians, which was just annoying. It felt like there was so much repetition in the story - details and anecdotes that would have been more interesting just blur together because she draws the same vague conclusions from everything. She also included far too much information about her own relationship (or lack thereof) while simultaneously including so few actual details that I wasn't compelled to care about that element of the book at all.
In short: I'm glad I read it for the content and new information, but as you can probably tell, the style, tone, and irrelevant content of the book really put me off it.
by Lisa Ko · read August 10, 2018
Such a powerful story about family and identity - I loved the vivid descriptions of each place, the deep characterizations, and especially the personal stories of both Deming and Polly. My favourite aspects of the book were Polly's complicated feelings about and experiences with motherhood, one of the most distinct and honest accounts of having a child that I've read in a long time, and the descriptions of Deming's synesthesia. I think I would have enjoyed a deeper engagement with Kay and Peter's role in the novel, but I agree with why they were decentered.
by Viet Thanh Nguyen · read August 7, 2018
Loved the uniqueness of each essay; the book encompasses a broad range of identities, experiences, and perspectives that were all enriching to read. My favourites in the collection were 'The Ungrateful Refugee' by Dina Nayeri, '13 Ways of Being an Immigrant' by Porochista Khakpour, and 'Refugee Children: The Yang Warriors' by Kao Kalia Yang.
by Dan Ariely · read August 2, 2018
I thought that the main ideas of this book were useful, but I wasn't very impressed with it as a whole. My primary annoyance was that its conclusions seemed to be based on a lot of anecdotal observations and small studies that weren't wholly convincing; also, some of the points were too repetitive.
by Truman Capote · read July 31, 2018
This book was fairly interesting – there were a few sections with too much detail, and certain elements seemed repetitive, but for the most part it provided a comprehensive and fascinating account of the Clutter killings. It felt like it focused a lot on eliciting sympathy for Perry Smith (or at least diving deeply into his history and experiences) which after a while wore on me. Overall though it was my first experience with a true crime account and I was glad I read it even though the genre is definitely not for me.
by Caroline Kepnes · read July 30, 2018
So, a disclaimer on the 1 star: I gave this novel a 'did not like' because I personally didn't really like it, but in terms of style and writing it's quite good, especially the utilization of second person perspective. However, I was expecting a twist that never came (which severely disappointed me) and the book contained a lot of sexual content which I also didn't like. TLDR: some people would really enjoy this book but I just wasn't one of them.
by Rob Carrick · read July 24, 2018
Helpful overview on main financial issues that concern young people. The content was mostly useful to me and I liked the tone of the book too - will be a valuable resource over the next few years.
2nd Read: Enjoyed rereading this now that I know more about personal finance and have different goals. This time around, the most useful sections to me were on managing my investment accounts, getting the best deals from my bank, and thinking about saving up for future expenses.
2nd Read: Enjoyed rereading this now that I know more about personal finance and have different goals. This time around, the most useful sections to me were on managing my investment accounts, getting the best deals from my bank, and thinking about saving up for future expenses.
by Mark Manson · read July 21, 2018
Some useful tips/things to think about, buried under unnecessary profanity, lengthy anecdotes, an irresponsible section misrepresenting sexual assault, inconsistent tone, and poor signposting. I can barely remember his points and I read it yesterday because I was too busy filtering out the irrelevant parts... it would have been better as a well structured blog post.
by Kurt Vonnegut Jr. · read July 17, 2018
I was probably three chapters from the end when I gave up on this book a few years ago and returned just so it wouldn't annoy me anymore... honestly, I just couldn't get behind this one. I enjoyed the beginning, but getting to the end felt like a chore; there were certainly funny and thought-provoking parts, but they were buried in a lot of writing that didn't interest me.
by Ayọ̀bámi Adébáyọ̀ · read June 23, 2018
This novel is a story about family and love that's also about loneliness and shattered trust and tragedy. It wasn't hard to read in the sense that it was difficult to get through, but it was hard because it dealt with a lot of tough circumstances, and it jumped around in perspective and time, and it contains a lot of historical/cultural connections that may not be intuitive (but are valuable to learn). All of that said, I'm glad that I read it.
by Mira T. Lee · read June 16, 2018
This book was touching and challenging. I felt that I really empathized with the characters and their difficult circumstances, and alongside those difficulties were poignant moments of contentment and love.
by Gillian Flynn · read June 10, 2018
I thought that this book was really well done. The storytelling style kept me constantly trying to piece together what had happened - I liked that as a reader you have enough information to work with when forming theories, and things keep on getting revealed as you go. Some parts were rather disturbing, and just the style and writing of the first few chapters made me feel grimy and unpleasant, but that was the point. Definitely an entertaining read.
by Frank W. Abagnale · read June 7, 2018
The story was interesting, since you don't frequently learn how crimes are carried out, but there was very little else going on besides the the plot - low levels of critical reflection and shallow descriptions of the emotional and intellectual components of the story. His depiction of his life was honestly quite depressing, and I couldn't tell if that was the point or not.
by A.W. Tozer · read June 7, 2018
This book was amazing - the content and style are the perfect fit for calm reflection on truths about God and our relationship to Him. The writing was easy to follow and the chapters were the perfect length for understanding the concepts without unnecessary repetition. I can see myself frequently rereading this.
by Ruth Ware · read June 6, 2018
I wasn't a big fan of this book... it had far too much that I didn't like (a really irritating main character, uninteresting secondary characters, so many irrelevant descriptions, variations on the same three sentences over and over again) and not enough that I actually enjoyed (suspense of discovering what's going on, feeling it all click together). It was fine, but definitely too long for the amount of enjoyment I derived from reading it.
by Yaa Gyasi · read May 26, 2018
An excellent, heartbreaking generational story, told through over a dozen perspectives on two continents. I loved the writing style and the novel's structure - fragmented and rich in history, spirituality, and emotion, to the point that it feels like it's overflowing.
by Marina Keegan · read May 25, 2018
Overall, I liked this book – definitely some stories/essays over others. I liked the interesting, varied premises that the stories seemed to be centered on (like 'Challenger Deep'), and occasional details on the more conventional ones (like the thing about the 'cha cha chas' in 'The Ingenue'). As far as the nonfiction, I liked the one about the whales, and I especially liked that the book ended with launching your business card into space.
by Matthew J. Sullivan · read May 21, 2018
I liked this book! The setting, style, and characters all contributed to a unified sense of 'unusualness', which was intriguing. Certain parts really creeped me out, especially reading it at night, so I think that was well done. I was a little disappointed with the story's resolution, and wasn't super attached to the characters either. Good for an easy read!
by Min Jin Lee · read May 21, 2018
This was a fantastic read. Not only do I love this style of novel, following a family through generations, but the prose seemed to suit it perfectly: deliberate and thorough while remaining engaging. I'm so glad that as a reader you get a glimpse into each character's head and insight into their thoughts and desires. (I really liked Noa.) Definitely a meaningful way to learn about Korean and Japanese history and culture, and it's encouraged me to do more reading about it.
Especially loved these sentences in the book, speaking about pachinko: '...there could only be a few winners and a lot of losers. And yet we played on, because we had hope that we might be the lucky ones.'
Especially loved these sentences in the book, speaking about pachinko: '...there could only be a few winners and a lot of losers. And yet we played on, because we had hope that we might be the lucky ones.'
by Robin Benway · read May 14, 2018
An engaging read, centered around family issues and identity. I liked the dialogue and the alternating perspectives between the three main characters, but I didn't like the ending... I think it was good that it was a happy ending, but everything felt too neatly packaged to be a realistic resolution to the issues in the novel.
by Sue Monk Kidd · read May 14, 2018
It took me a while to 'get the hang of' this book, but once I did I really enjoyed it. The characters all seemed real to me and there were so many unexpected quirks and details that enlivened the story. I also liked all the connections to bees - it made it more unique and engaging!
by Clarissa Goenawan · read May 6, 2018
To summarize my thoughts on this book: I liked the style, but the plot was something else. I felt like I was beside Ren throughout the entire novel because of the specificity of the mundane details of his life, which was entertaining. As for the mystery itself, though, the first 3/4ths of the book pass with very little indication of what will happen next, and then the last quarter hit me with half a dozen revelations, in quick succession, with minimal explanation, before the book ended. Even though I enjoyed most of the novel, the resolutions out of left field annoyed me.
by Samanta Schweblin · read March 24, 2018
Definitely a disorienting read - I was a little frantic reading it, trying to figure out what was going on, which I think was intended. I didn't love it for that reason (I like knowing what's happening and getting closure), but it was a cool outlier from the novels I usually read. Makes me scared to be a parent.
by Khaled Hosseini · read March 18, 2018
I really liked the combination of character development, cultural/historical settings, fundamental themes, and details in this novel. It was also very cool to reread this novel as an adult because I understood and noticed so much more but could remember what had struck me as a young teenager.
I'll share two examples.
The first: when I read The Kite Runner the first time, I was struck by the friendship between Amir and Hassan – the love, shame, betrayal, loyalty; this time, I enjoyed the dynamics between Amir and Baba more, because they felt more complex and real to me.
The second: I remember loving the classic line 'For you, a thousand times over' because of the way it spoke to Hassan's sacrificial love for Amir despite his unworthiness. This time around, it was Rahim Khan's line, 'There is a way to be good again', that really resonated with me. When you carry Amir's shame, guilt, and self-loathing with him throughout the novel, that opportunity for redemption and peace is something powerful and healing.
I'll share two examples.
The first: when I read The Kite Runner the first time, I was struck by the friendship between Amir and Hassan – the love, shame, betrayal, loyalty; this time, I enjoyed the dynamics between Amir and Baba more, because they felt more complex and real to me.
The second: I remember loving the classic line 'For you, a thousand times over' because of the way it spoke to Hassan's sacrificial love for Amir despite his unworthiness. This time around, it was Rahim Khan's line, 'There is a way to be good again', that really resonated with me. When you carry Amir's shame, guilt, and self-loathing with him throughout the novel, that opportunity for redemption and peace is something powerful and healing.
by Shanthi Sekaran · read March 15, 2018
I enjoyed reading this novel. Personally, I liked the stories of Solimar and Kavya more than ethical dilemmas around Ignacio, but it felt well-balanced and raised a lot of questions for me about what it means to have a family. Soli's story in particular was wrenching and well-written.
When reading I noted this quote because it expresses one of the central themes of the novel:
'And those people. Would they have loved you more than I did? Will you wish someday that I had left you with them?' She had many hours to think that day, and a lifetime to revisit her deed, and here's what she would discover: This story, this fight for a boy–it wasn't about the boy. It was about his mothers. It was about a law that grew from the deepest roots of their being.
When reading I noted this quote because it expresses one of the central themes of the novel:
'And those people. Would they have loved you more than I did? Will you wish someday that I had left you with them?' She had many hours to think that day, and a lifetime to revisit her deed, and here's what she would discover: This story, this fight for a boy–it wasn't about the boy. It was about his mothers. It was about a law that grew from the deepest roots of their being.
by Paulo Coelho · read February 28, 2018
There were certain parts of this book I really liked and other parts that didn't interest me - I enjoyed the archetypal style of the story and the mystical elements, but it didn't strike me as incredibly profound.
by Elif Batuman · read February 24, 2018
I loved reading this - the writing was engaging, amusing, and definitely realistic. I especially enjoyed Selin's thought processes, so strange and genuine to me, and the dialogue exchanges, which frequently made me laugh out loud or feel deeply uncomfortable and unsettled. The last couple chapters weren't my favourite but overall it was a great read.
by Trevor Noah · read February 14, 2018
I found this book super engaging - I really enjoyed the mix of incredible stories, bits of history/context, and personal reflections.
by Richard H. Thaler · read February 13, 2018
I think this book is worth reading if only for an exposure to choice architecture and its effects on our lives. It was definitely enlightening to look at the outcomes of policies with and without nudges, and to realize the power that choice architects have over me. The content was a bit repetitive, but the book was short and interesting enough that I didn't really mind.
by Emily Henry · read February 13, 2018
I liked Natalie, the general premise, and Grandmother's stories throughout the book... but I didn't care about Beau and the details/particularities of changing universes etc. were far more elaborate than the level of effort I was willing to expend to understand them.
by Jane Jacobs · read February 11, 2018
I found a lot of this book's content interesting, especially the emphasis on challenging norms and observing how cities actually operate. In particular, I really enjoyed the section at the end about strategies for approaching problems and considering cities as 'organized complexity'.
However, the book was quite long and took me a while to get through, and the chapters at the end were not as interesting to me. I'm sure that this book is more meaningful if you have some knowledge of the cities frequently referenced; I would love to read an equivalent on a city I was familiar with.
However, the book was quite long and took me a while to get through, and the chapters at the end were not as interesting to me. I'm sure that this book is more meaningful if you have some knowledge of the cities frequently referenced; I would love to read an equivalent on a city I was familiar with.
by Lundy Bancroft · read January 10, 2018
I learned a lot from the insights about abuse and abusive mindsets in this book; the author's experience and practicality were especially helpful. Would definitely recommend, but it's full of heavy, serious content, so I found that reading a few chapters at a time was all I could handle.
by Edward B. Burger · read October 10, 2017
One of those books that you should have a copy of just to thumb through over and over again. It's not revolutionary, but it's a great collection of techniques and strategies for thinking that I think anyone would enjoy. The book is compact, well organized (I love the 'elements' mnemonic), and very practical - plus, it has its own outline at the back, which I think is absolutely fantastic.
by Toni Morrison · read June 16, 2017
Incredible prose that shares stories of love and struggle. The attention to language and communication in this novel is so arresting and thought-provoking. Difficult at times but so rich and insightful.
by Fyodor Dostoyevsky · read August 19, 2016
I really enjoyed rereading this – my memories of it were sparse, but I found much more humour and insight in the novel the second time around! I especially liked the vast array of characters and the convoluted, dramatic relationships between everyone.
by Ray Kurzweil · read October 1, 2015
This book is not very cohesive, ranges pretty dramatically in technicality, and (in my opinion) has too much information about the author. That said, there's lots to learn about the brain, the proposed method of using hidden hierarchical Markov models is interesting, and the discussions on intelligence and consciousness at the end are worthwhile. Also, upon rereading I've realized it's much more understandable (and I got a lot more out of it) when I had some exposure to discrete math, machine learning, etc. prior to reading it.
by Dathan Auerbach · read February 1, 2015
To start, reading this book before bed was a mistake, because I read it all in one sitting and now I won't be able to fall asleep. This story really freaked me out – the plausibility of it makes it terrifying to me, plus certain details (like being in the woods at night) were too stressful for me. I liked the way the novel was arranged and the role of the narrator in developing the tone and connecting the narratives together; there were definitely some unnecessary passages and a few unresolved details, but overall it's a captivating and creepy book.